Does she still love me?

10 months ago my fiancee and girlfriend of 7 yrs left me, we have two boys together 2yrs and the other is 11 months. She left me because of my drinking. i have not had any alchohol since and got myself help. she plays it off as if she is better off now but she has recently called asking " why did you give up so easily" and that she misses me emotionally and physically. I still pay all her bills and my kids are taken complete care of .she doesnt have to work and i am 1,700 miles away ..i take good care of her and my boys. now with me not being around all the time but she is set for the time being i wounder why she would lie to me about having bfs and having a good time?..could she still have feelings for me . she tells me i need to get back up there to her and start being romantic and loving toward her again but i cant handle another split from her .. is this just a game you women play?

Let it go. She just was looking for any excuse that You would accept. She's gone.

I hate to say this but yes, it is a game that women play.

It's not worth the headache that it will cause you down the line to continue to play this game and worry about it. If you still love her give yourself some time to get over it.

Honestly she probably does not love you, she just loves to make you miserable

Drinking can effect a relationship.. I would say yes.. she is interested in you. She wants you back and wants you close enough so she can see the difference of you not drinking again.

She probably appreciates the good guy she fell in love with and wants him back. Yes it sucks getting hurt..and you take a chance on getting hurt again trying again..but, remember she wouldn't of left you except she couldn't handle who you turn into when you drink and that effects how she feels about you.

Well....if some guy knocked me up and allowed me to have two of his kids out of wedlock I think I'd have a hard time believing that he had my best interest at heart. You choose this arrangement so deal with it. You have the freedom you want, your 1700 miles away, and you can have all the girlfriends you want without having to hear the kids scream. Isn't that what you wanted big guy? You're lucky the chick even talks to you--which probably wouldn't happen if she didn't hav