Do you think its wrong to disown my dad?

He was never around when I was young or until I was 12. Know he's only around because he's worried about my schooling. He callas me only to hassle me about school and my boyfriend. Never to ask how I'm doing or to just say hi. Almost everytime he calls the way he talks to me makes me feel like a bad person. I'm afraid to talk to him about it because I don't want him to hate me but I just can't handle the way he treats me.

And on top of that he makes my mom feel like a bad mother just because she doesnt agree with all his ways. She raised me HE DIDNT I personally think he has no right to be like this. What do you think?
What should I do?

From personal experience, in the similar situation, I learned that you should really talk to your dad about the way you feel now.

I pretty much disowned my father and didn't speak to him for over 5 years, sent every card back to him, every present, everything and anything. I didn't want anything to do with him. And then as you get older, you realize that when it comes time to get married, you would really like this man to walk you down the aisle, and if God forbid something happened to him, I would regret it.

I ended up contacting my dad after the 5 years and took him out to dinner letting him know that I needed to talk and he needed to listen. We had a nice dinner, and I was able to get a lot of my hurt and anger out and he realized what he did wrong, and at the same time I learned his prospective as well. We don't have an amazing relationship now, but we're working on it.

Communication is key. And he will never hate you, he's your dad.

He really doesn't have any right to be like this. I understand how hard it can be for you to talk to your dad, but the best thing to do may be to muster up the courage and confront him. Honestly, he doesn't seem like a supportive father, so he should just leave you alone. Try talking to your mom about this?

Tell him you need money and as the father, it's his job to take care of this for you.