I have a guy friend he calls me cuddles and the chemistry /connection is there ..lately people have said when

my eyes light up .. Then he go now don't go falling in love... My thing is i think i should just back of for a few days .. any advice would be helpful b-cuz i do like the guy...my question is how should i handle this friendhsip?

Back off a bit, see how you feel. Whenever you do that to see how someone else reacts, its called playing games. I would lay it on the table, and walk away. Hey, i love cuddling with you, and i defently think we have a connection and chemisty. People have been telling me my eyes are lighting up. I'm not entirely sure, but i wanted to tell you where i am at.

Then whatever he says, accept that is how he feels and you can't change it. Generally when someone expects to hear stuff, its not love. That line he said could mean a million differnt things. Sounds kinds player-esque to me though. one thing. If he said that, then he must of already thought about it at some point. You just need to figure out his answer.

From being in this situation before, I say let him know you feel something. Guys sometimes are scared to tell someone they already consider a friend that they have feelings beyond that friendship. I was in love with my best friend for years, never said anything and only found out now that we are both married with children that she felt the same. Even though I am married and my wife is great, it still broke my heart knowing that how I felt could've been something very special if I had the courage to speak up.

He may really like you, but just needs his time and space. There's a difference between affection and attraction for someone, and i would think he has affection for you.
He said to "not fall in love with him"?
Then this guy might be looking for a short term thing, and if you can't meet him on that level then, seriously, don;t pursue it. However if its getting really uncomfortable for you, you should confront him on it, and ask him where he sees this going. It would save you both alot of additional heartache and problems. my 2 cents =)

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