Truthful answers please!! I can handle them!! From men and women.?

My hubby and i were married 1.5 years ago. I recently saw the cell bill and found he has been talking with a couple women on the phone. (i called the #'s) He has never been married and has no kids. But 1 of them is his ex g/f. When i called the # is when i found out who she is. He has NEVER told her he got married. I find that pretty strange. Of course, he denies almost everything i confront him with. (remember, I HAVE the cell bills. I see who HE calls and who calls him.) It's been going on both ways. She had No knowledge of me before I called her number. (at least she says). Im not sure who to believe. But I AM certain of 1 thing......one of them ARE lying to me. Men and women out there, what are your thoughts on this? If you need more info, please ask. Thanks...so much. Oh, and by the way, my hubby works for a cruise line and is on a cruise ship for 6 months at a time. So during this time, i only see him when i go on the cruise with him, while hes working. THOUGHTS PLEASE!!!!

He hasnt denied hes talked to her, just the things she has told me he has said to her. Such as,"I promise to make it up to you, I made a mistake". He totally denies that. As well as many other things. But does NOT deny NOT telling her anything about me or us being married for 1.5 years. When I told her, she sounded really pissed. Im not sure what to think, or who to believe. But she calls me alot. At least 3-4 x week. But my hubby tells me that she is telling him that Im the one calling her disturbing her, even at work. Well, had she not of given me her work # how in the hell would i know it? and, her e-mail, she asked me to send her a few pics of our wedding. she didnt believe it. SHE DOES NOW though.

He has no business talking to her. He obvously still has feelings for her. Otherwise, he would have told her that he was married. He's lying to you. They are not just friends. If they were, he wouldn't hide their phone calls. Plus, you said that she seems surprised and upset to find out that he is married. I know you love him, but common sense tells you that he is up to no good. He is the only one here with a reason to lie.

... this keeps sounding worse and worse, doesn't it?

On a cruise ship? Gone for six months at a time, sneaking calls to an ex who doesn't know he isn't available... not good.

Try calling some of the other women and asking them if they know (whatever his name is) and telling them you know him, too and he's mentioned their name, you're just trying to find him since he hasn't been returning your phone calls. Ask if he lives there. See if she gets jealous.

Call them in front of him and put it on speaker phone. I would divorce his butt because he is calling other women and shouldnt be without telling you. My husband talks to his ex all the time and it doesnt bother me one bit because he does it in front of me.

When are you filing for divorce? He's talking to other women, neglecting to disclose the fact that he's married, and he's lying to you. What else do you need to know. Do you need to actually see him in the act?

Go on a cruise