Calling in the troops!?

4th month TTC, Chemical in March.. I FEEL really good about this month for some reason. I just feel like im hitting the nail on the head. Primarilly because I have learned that I can NOT rely on charting. Apparently my periods went from 34 days to 27 in one month, so who the hell knows when I ovulate. and I wont dare do an OPK and run out the bathroom screaming to my husband that we need to bump asap. I just couldnt handle the pressure.

Problem being, with all the bumping at the wrong times.. We need some spice. Seriously. I need advice, seriously. What can I do to keep him wanting to TTC? this needs to feel like an adventure and not an obligation.

you should look into the clear blue easy fertility monitor. for the first 3 months i was obvulating at the same time, this last month i ovulated at a completely different time.
not only that, but like you i went from my cycle being 38 days to 27!! weird.. i wouldn't know when i was ovulating if it wasn't for the clear blue easy fertility monitor.

baby dust to us all!!

you go to the spa in the beginning of the day to boost your mood, then the two of you have a nice date night... and if you guys dont wanna do the humpty, then dont ... just enjoy each others company....

Well somethings to do is make it about the two of you and your want for eachother and make love, don't be having sex to make babies...

Come home from work a little early get dinner cooking for your husband in a piece of sexy lengerie, light up some candles and have some soft music playing. Have fun.

Try planning a romantic weekend getaway together where you can have all the time in the world to focus on just the two of you.

Take your husband by complete surprise and just turn up the heat.

Make your bedroom a love nest for just the two of you that means put away the OPK, the thermometers, the how to conceive magazines, books articles etc. and just go crazy with eachother.

When you least expect it, that is when it will happen.