OK is this rude or mean and how should i handle this ??

Ok today my mom was at work i was home from school nothing to eat so i didnt eat. She brought me dinner at about 8:00 pm then she had me leave with her at around 8:20 to go see my family well we didnt leave there til 11:00 and of course im STARVING i didnt have time to eat. So i kept telling her while we were there im hungry i havent eaten all day can we please hurry she just ignored me !!! Earlier today i started my peroid wel all my tampones were in her car and she left with friends and locked her car and took her keys so i called her round 6 NOPE she didnt leave i had to wait til 8. I get no "im sorry" NEVER she never says i love you or anything im really starting to wonder if she does or not b/c she doesnt even treat me like she does she buys me stuff if i want it but thats it? is she just a selfish person or what idk what to think btw im 14 so i cant drive or anything
What do i do do i talk to her or tough it out??

IDK WHAT TO DO ???

i think you need to talk to her. i have had similar instances, i never felt i was good enough for my mother and i used to wish that she`d go away and 4years ago she did. she told me get out. i was the worst day of my life. i think perhaps she had problems in her head!? i dont see her side of the family, its painful at xmas and its painful at birthdays. your lucky that she treats you and buys you things. i never even experienced going shopping with my mum for my first bra.. she shopped alot at the second hand places. i remember an instance like yours i was at nans and was hungry and she just told me to shut up, and to stop being inpatient. it hurt coming from my own mother. you`d think that she`d go out of her way and get you something like a biscuit. but really just have the guts and say loko we havent eating as yet do you mind if we pop out and grab something. we will be back, or just cut the visist and say look we`d better get going we havent eating and yourself and abit hungry. but ignoring you isnt a nice thing to do. im 21 and if i could have changed things i would have. but i beleive my mother had a problem and i know that my dad used to talk to her and tell her she needs to see someone. but she wouldnt, and as a reult has lost me. my parents separted and my mother moved about 5mins away and i remember when my dads place, the home i grew up in burnt down. she had no sympathy for him, she didnt offer for him to stay. instead he stayed next door at a mates place. then 1 month after she wanted a divorce and then 2months after that she didnt want me in her life anymore and thats the way it has been since then. dads got depression and im abit down. my mom got married later that year and didnt even tell me - i found out from a stranger and that really hurt thats when i knew she didnt want me anymore, and i just have to come to terms with that. she missed my 18th and my 21st. with the tampon situation, you probably should keep a note when you get your period and keep a tampon in your pocket incase. because your mom isnt going to be around all the time. you need to learn that you need to think for yourself. i do believe though that you need to talk to her. and perhaps she might have been having a bad day to. talk to her and tell her she talk to you about anything and know that you can talk to her about anything. be able to read each others mind sorta and just let her know that you wernt happy with the way she ignored you the other day when you were really hungry. i hate it when you really hungry! you feel weak and really sick. moral of it all. talk to her! goodluck :-)

You definitely need to talk with her and tell her how you feel. In this day and age, an open relationship with your mother is important. She probably doesn't realize that you feel the way you do and since she isn't a mind reader, she'll never know unless you tell her. Good luck.

patience ...if you knew you where going to get your period then you should have been prepared..like it wasnt life or death..and im sure mom loves you but you are in those teenage years of insucuity and you r needs are at the right now stage...ever hear of pMS