Unforgivable?

my ex boyfriend of almost 4 years is trying to make a comeback after seeing some other female for a year...Personally I think he's still seeing her. she lives out of town. we don't live together fulltime anymore. there are nites that he doesn't show or call(he doesn't have a cell right now! how convienent)
would any of you go to his work town and spy? how else would i know?
I really feel alot of resentment for him. I love him but not like before I think....How do I handle this with this guy who is trying to pick things up where he left them?

There is a reason this man is your ex. You still obviously have trust issues with him. Without trust there is no going back! Leave him in your past. Don't waste your time spying on him. Use your time to get out and meet new people and, in time, you'll meet a nice, decent man worthy of your time and affection that you will be able to trust. Take care and best of luck to you.

you can't pick up where you left off is something has happened, as in your case. you have to decide if this is what you really want. by the sounds of it, this guy isn't trustworthy and it isn't worth your time. move on, get your own place and distance yourself. there are plenty of guys who would be worth your time

If you can't trust him the relationship with never last... period.

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