My Best Friend (Part 2)?

Remember my girl that i know over 10 years and now she ignore me because of her b/f!!!!
Like i told iam really , really happy for her, and i just wish she had time for me like one time in a week, like a phone call, but she have no time anymore!!!
So i tried to talk to her like somme people said it would be the best thing, i thought it would the best too!!!
I did!!!!!
And she said , she have to take care of her man now, i should try to handle it!!!!!
ANd she do nothing wrong...........i have to accept that!!!

So what now????

Man in Room V..........there are 234 Parts........and this is to begin with the second part........" ??? so what was youre answer again"????

i may have answered your question and told you to talk to her............
well,
at least you told her about how you feel,
it is obvious that at this point in her life,
she has chosen to put him in front of her friends...
although you may be confused,
it's a part of life,
as for my best friend 30 plus years, whenever we,
are in this situation,
"we" give each other space,
it actually works out good for us,
cause he has no insite through her best friend,
and he has to learn about who she is on his own,
and of course,
we're always there to support each other after the "first little while"...
and for support in whatever area we need it in,
you have to ask yourself,
is the friendship worth it.....
ask her what she thinks about the friendship "if you want to",
would she want you to be there for her should something go wrong,
cause at this point,
you must see that she is busy with her relationship,
and
it's only fair to allow her to try and find some happiness,
if that's what she's looking for, friends "should" understand.....
but in the same breath,
you could allow the friendship to dissolve,
if you feel there is no need to continue with it,
the ball's back in your court,
what you gonna do about it?

I say if you choose to dissolve the friendship, you tell her about it, so that she understands why you are not as close as you were.....

one thing my friend and i have been tough on, and not scared to tell the signifigant other is that...........
you can alway's find a man who will be with you,
but i'm not willing to have to look for another sacred friend ???..........

basically,
men can come and go,
but true friends go through it with you,
and are always there for you !!!!!!!

whatever you choose to do good luck...

I think you've acted in a mature way and it's time to move on with new friends. Don't worry. 100 years from now you will have forgotten all about it or it won't matter at all.

It's hurtful now, and that's a big part of growing up. The bad part of going from being a child to being a grownup is the pain you have to endure as your life changes.

Find new friends. Keep her as a friend, but understand her life has changed and it might hurt her as much as it hurts you.

Good luck, and I think you will heal. And I think it will be soon.

Accept the situation. Find new friends but still do keep her as one of your friends. She is in that stage where her relationship with her man is her first priority. But of course this does not mean your friendship ends but it only means less time with you.

Do understand your friend.