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Is it trure if you have sex with a man he looses respect for you?


ok me and my ex boyfriend had a relationship for a year.I meet him on september and we had sex on november 21 of 07' . We stil continued the relationship and a few times during that year i'd drive out to the carnivale for a week and we'd have sex.We broke up a few days after our 1 year anniversery.He got with a new girl then left her for another girl.But we've still been talking every day.He's been saying i love you and maybe down the road once we both get a job we can move in togethor and make it work.My question is because we had sex has he lost respect for me.I once saiod i'm a slut for loosing my virginity to you when we aren't married and he said i don't ever want to hear you call yourself that again.So i'm not sure.I changed alot for him.When we first meet i weighed 275 i now weigh 100 pounds.I lost alot of weight and fixed myself up for him.But he always says do things for you not for me.What does he mean? I don't know much about guys, i don't know how to handle this

as far as loosing the weight i just cut out sweet and stuff like that and exercised. My ex has helped me through alot i mean at one point before we got togethor i was sleeping in my then current bf's car and he was abusive but i didn't have a place to stay my ex was all you can stay with me i'l sleep on the floor and you take the bed..He's been with me through alot.And he says even though we aren't togethor he considers me his best friend.I'm just worried.Little things he says like if i say f' u cause i'm mad at him he says you already did.I don't know should i cut the sex out until we get married?

Not if you are married to him/ ;-)

no thats not what makes someome lose respect for you. Its your lack of self confidence and the fact that you change your self for others , this is what makes people lose respect

whoops i misread ...i am sleepy....he sounds like he is letting you down easy....and trying not to hurt you....you need to move on.and you are not a slut....if he is not in love with you then no matter what you do with your physical self is going to matter....he sounds like he is trying his best not to hurt you. he wants you to be happy...go find you another guy and be happy...life is too short

screw him again

hell have the most respect for u
trust me

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