When is stress and life just too much?

Honestly, I don't know how I'm handling all of this, much less my family. My aunt has severe RSD and had her arm amputated in January, that same week I lost my job and have yet to even be called for an interview. Two weeks later, my Grandfather, who has been sick for the last 3 years( he had two massive strokes) was taken to the hospital again for his kidneys and then released and taken back again and had two low scale heart attacks. He was released and sent back home to only have my Grandmother taken to the hospital for a stroke just about 4 days later. She has already had two heart attacks and yeah, wow. I just don't know how to catch my breath and know that the stress is adding to my own health problems of going through the diagnose process of autoimmune diseases. Not to mention that my boyfriend of almost a year broke up with me, after I was there when his Grandfather died and then a week later his mother. Does anyone have any GREAT suggestions or advice on this?

Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't how hard you hit; it's about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. How much you can take, and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done. Now, if you know what you're worth, then go out and get what you're worth. But you gotta be willing to take the hit, and not pointing fingers saying you ain't where you are because of him, or her, or anybody. Cowards do that and that ain't you. You're better than that!"
鈥?Rocky Balboa

Just hold on.

All I can say is that as you go thr life it becomes more clear that who you thought had your back really didn't! its almost like looking back into those high school days & wondering what you did wrong? when in fact you were yr self & thats all that you can be. Life problems will always come up when you think, you have to much on your plate. Think about it this way maybe thats Gods way of slowing you down, so you are able to see thr the BS. To force you to be true to yourself. Remember that some people are givers & some just take. Doesn't mean that you have to be either 1, all I'm saying is not everyone can be what you need at the time you need it! Maybe your B/F didnt have the right tools to help you. So its just easier to walk away then help. Not at all your fault.

Go to your best friend, the one who knows everything about you, ask if he/she has time to talk, and let it all hang out. Sometimes sharing a load, can make it easier to carry.
Keep saying to yourself, "This too shall pass".
I have had times in my life, I just wanted to quit, but I got throught them. Someday you are going to wake up and the sun will be shining and you will realize, you feel happy, and glad to be alive. I guess we have to have some really bad times to know how great life can be.