Need help with current boyfriend problems.?

I have been dating this guy for two months now I am completly head over heals in love with him. I am out of a 5yr relationship him a 7. we both have been split for 2 yrs ( they have 2 kids I have none). like 3 days ago he asked me to go get his girls that live 2 hrs a way. I did. And now everynow and then we are fighting over dtupid things and the mother keeps calling and now she is saying she wants him back and wants to move to our town. How do i handle this? He lives with me and I have to act like we are not together in front of the children ( which I understand ). I have asked him if i have anything to worry about he says no. should i trust him? what would u do in my situation?

let me also add that we have been friends for a long time. we connect in a way no one understands. we dont ever wanna be a way from each other. And even though we live together we have separte rooms.

Well, i personally think that if you are both seriouse and mature then you should both talk to his ex and his children and start living a normal life. I mean two months is really fast but you know whats right in your heart and so does he. You two are the only ones that can figure things out. Your just looking for a little push to get you going ; ) and i think i have the push. If you let this continue without saying anything and you are truly in love with him the only people that will be hurt in the end is you and the kids. Sounds like his ex is a controle freak and is using his kids against him. Which is not good. The only thing i can tell you is if you really feel this is right in your heart then things are going to have to change. You are going to have to talk to him. Let us know how it goes, which im sure youll have another question after you talk to him lol.

I would take a HUGE step back. Living with someone after only two months obviously was a big mistake. Likewise fancying yourself head over heels in love with him after such a short time. The fact that you and him are fighting over stupid things clearly shows that you don't know each other at all. Plus he has commitments / issues from his past that he needs to sort out before he can be ready for a new relationship. Even if he does not want to get back together with his ex, she will always have some sort of a place in his life as the mother of his children. You need to back off and wait for those issues to be resolved. And if and when you and him to decide to go forward with your relationship again, for heaven's sake, don't be in such a hurry. Take your time and things might just work out for you.

Honey,

In one hand I feel that if he trusted you enough to get his kids at his ex's place, you shouldn't worry too much. That means he doesn't care whether his ex finds out about you or not because he is probably serious about you. But you have to let him know that he has to put an end to 2 things to ensure your relationship works out, one, he should personally introduce you to his ex as his official girlfriend (if he hasn't done so), and let her know you live together so she knows you guys are serious. Second, I don't know the children's age but it would be a good idea to start telling the kids who you are.

you've been dating for 2 months and you already live together?