Boyfriend problem!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Before summer started i only saw my boyfriend maybe 2 times a week but we talked every day. Now that school is over he comes over everyday. When the relationship was new i looked forward to those 2 days alot but now that summer is here...he sees me every single day and its too much. I'll end up getting seriously hurt if i get to close to him, Yes i do love him alot and he makes me really happy even when im not happy but i think we shouldnt see each other everyday leave some fun for the times we get to be together. Well i would call him and talk about this but i sent him a message on youtube because this has been bothering me....and do you think this will end badly?

I understand that you feel smothered at times from your boyfriend, things like that tend to happen. I however disagree with the fact that you preferred to send him a message on youtube instead of talking to him face-to-face, my advice to you would be to sit down with him and tell him how you truly feel. let him know that you love and care about him deeply but you feel that you need a little more space
good luck!!!

I don't know how old you and your boyfriend are but you're right. it seems like your boyfriend needs a life. I'll tell you from experience that it is not good to see each other everyday even though it may feel nice but it is not healthy. I'll tell you something that I read. you need a partner to share your life with not to make him your life. you need to balance your life with friends, family, and even make time for yourself and your boyfriend needs to do the same t hing. I'm talking from experience

don't message him about it or call him, talk to him face to face about it, if you love him and he loves you he will understand it. just say you need some you time and you like the feeling of excitement to see him, chances are, he agrees. make a day or two every week where your not together and it you can work it out, i think you two will be just fine.

seeing him everyday is a great thing. i couldn't imagine not wanting to see my boyfriend everyday, and he feels the same about me. this is a new relationship right? now is the time to really get to know eachother. spend as much time with him as possible, and if you don't like what you get to know.. maybe he isnt the right guy for you.

if he likes you that much that he wants nothing more to do than be with you, he should be OK with you needing some you time... the only thing that is going to happen if you two continue seeing each other every day is you are going to get sick of each other and that is when it gets bad... so you did good by telling him now and not having to deal with a break up in a few weeks.

you are right about getting sick of each other...it will happen. i would suggest spending time with friends and family....give each other a chance to miss each other. don't be too serious about the situation though...it's common and the less fuss you make over it...it will be less of a big deal...everything will be fine :) just make time for family, friends, and then comes boyfriend.

Most likely hes going to get his feelings hurt. If he comes by and sees you everyday he obviously has it bad for you girl. You should be happy. I hope you explained your reasoning in the nicest way possible. Although if you love him the way you say you do, all you would want to do is be with him but i dont know. good luck though.

I think if he really loves he, he will understand the situation and listen to what you have to say.. I mean you guys wouldnt want to get bored of each other so quickly right? so that is good that you told him and you guys should set a limit on what days you should see each other.. maybe 3 times a week or whatever fits you guys best... besides you guys can still talk on the phone.

hope this helps! :)

If he really loves you then it shouldn't end bad. And you guys should spend some time apart. Just make sure you explain that. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, tell him you need some time to miss him. Honestly, I kinda wish sometimes my bf was like that, but I miss him, so it makes me treasure the time I spend with him even more! Just remember that!

As long as you dont make it sound like you dont want to be around him i dont think you will have a problem just say im going to be doing something else on the days that you just want to be alone. I hope he understands and doesnt get upset!

tell him how it us,
you need some space.
you guys dont need to take a break,
you just need your space,
he doesnt need to visit you everyday,
you can talk..
but you got things u would like to do independently, ya know?

he should take it too hard,
and if he does...
then maybe hes not the one...


dont worry about that,
i bet ur young
and trust me there are a lot of fish out there...

well, maybe just a talk with him would remedy the situation...let him know that hey, sometimes too much of a good thing is not so good at all~ if you guys are still on the same page it should totally work out, if not then it's ok...

Just tell him that you still like him alot you just don't think you should be around each other every second of everyday! He will understand and of her doesent then you don't want to be with him anyways!

Just tell him how you feel and explain why and I'm pretty sure he'll understand you reasoning on why you want to see each other less often.

Oh its over now

it might

you can never really tell how this is going to end. it all depends on his personality and how he relates to this kind of stuff. however, if you told him flat-out that 'i don't want to see you everyday', then he might take that as a break-up. but if you said something like 'i enjoy our days together, but i liked looking forward to the time we had when you only saw me twice a week. plus, it would give us some time to ourselves', it would sound more mature. it seems you two love each other a lot, and this should work out just fine. and, if he makes you happy when you are down, then that counts for everything. good luck, and i hope everything turns out to your liking.