Need opinions on a guy?

I met this guy back when we were both nearly 16. He was always the type to play with my head, we had our fights. 3 months later he went off to Job Corps. The games continued, every time he came home from Job Corps he took pleasure in hurting me, lying to me, and making excuses not to be with me. I ask him to please not ever speak to me again.

Fast forward 1&1/2 years, were both turning 18. I haven't spoke to him in nearly 2 years, I get a phone call from him out of the blue where he apologizes to me, professing his love for me... He's in the army... He comes home on leave a month later, only to go back to the army saying he loves me but doesn't want to be with me in case he dies in the war! Promises we'll get married if I wait for him.

I meet another guy, get pregnant, at age 19 I am pregnant with another guys child, he stilll wants to marry me. I tell him no because the man I'm with would hurt me if I left him. The baby is born 2 months later,

and in the same 2 months he gets married to a girl who looks just like me. I am unhappy with the man I'm with as well as afraid for my life, and he is unhappy with his clone of me. We keep in contact...

2 years later (a year from today) I move out of my ex's home, and his wife files a divorce against him while he's in Iraq. We still speak. Now we are up to the present day, he will be back "home" in 3 months. He says he still wants to be with me, yet refuses to act upon his actions & insists on making me wait.

It's been 7 years. I don't know if I should give him one more chance or cut him off.

He claims I am what he wants, and what he has wanted all along. I don't not what to do anymore, he has caused me so many problems, and yet at the same time, he is the only person I could every be happy with. Someone give me advice?!

Tell him if he wants to be with you to make it serious or you wont wait.
You two very well may be meant for one another.