Should I be mad and let him go for good??

So my boyfriend and I have been dating off and on for about 4 months. Every time we get back together, it only lasts a couple weeks because it is hard to trust him. Now i am dating him again. He has been calling me every night just to talk (we hardly get to see eachother because he lives pretty far away). I always look forward to his calls because he promised to call every day, but last night he didn't call me. I thought something might be up so I TXTed him to ask how his day was and he replys "great, i got to hang out with my cousin and her HOT friend". He swears all they did was hug and she kissed him on the cheek. Then we got in a big argument because something like this has happened before and he said "you don't trust me so it's over" then later he called and asked if i wanted to keep dating or end it. I said yes, I wanna try to work this out, but now I don't know if I should let him go or just trust him. Was I wrong by getting mad?? Should I trust him?? Do i just end it??

I swear, next time I hear a man describe a chick as "hot", I /will/ throw a bucket of freezing water at the slut. Then, when asked why I did it, I will explain the REAL meaning of the word "hot." UGH, they should stop it with that! ;)

Anyway. I'd say just end it. He lives far away, and you can't trust him. So what's the good part of this relationship? Seriously, you're better off single if this is your "only choice." At least you'll be free to meet other guys, instead of being tied to someone who's so disrespectful.

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no you weren't wrong for being mad he was being disrespectful to you by fooling around this chick behind your back.I f you can't trust him you shouldn't be in a relationship with him because the 3 most important things in a relationship is communication, trust, and respect. without all 3 you don't have a relationship.

If you don't trust him, the relationship is over. Either you trust him or you don't. For being an off and on relationship, I'd say the relationship is not solid and maybe it's best you move on to someone you can trust and be deserved. Don't cling on to someone like that, you need total trust for a relationship to work.

looks like u guys need some time apart from each other. trust me if you guys keep on dating the arguments will become worse. u guys need some time apart and he needs to figure out what he wants and if he is serious. or date other people. this is if you do not want to let him go and it sounds like you don't. but if you do i say go for the next guy who is willing to be your knight and shining armor.

you should have been mad and you shouldnt trust him....i would dump him and move on whats the use you never see him anyway....find someone to appreciate you for who you are

hi. he doesn't love you. he is a cheater. move on. my cousin and her hot friend? he is rubbing your nose in it. you will never change him.

Keep going on and off, you guys aren't going to last long so you might as well break up with him now.

Dump his sorry behind....

You were not wrong for getting mad. END IT!!

dump him and find someone new

well i think that u do have a good reason to be mad bcuz i would be pissed if my boyfriend was saying that i dont think that u guys should end it bcuz of that..i think u have trust issues but i wouldnt blame u for all of what ur saying...i think u should tell him look im your girlfriend and i dont appreaciate that ur telling me that u think that other girl is hot...im your girlfriend u shouldnt be saying that...just try to work it out...hopefully it will work...but if he doesnt even care then just end it....well good luck!!!!=)