I have a guy problem and need advice...?

So I've been "dating" this guy off and on for two years. I live in Chicago, he lives in Dallas. We both travel alot and met through work, and we immediately clicked. For the first 6 months, he would come to visit me and I would visit him wherever we were for work. And then he asked me to move to Dallas, and right when I really decided to move, he stopped answering my calls and emails. Fast forward a year, and he starts talking to me again (there was maybe a handful of calls and emails within that year). Now all of a sudden he wants to see me again, and is even asking me if I'll move to Dallas again. Is he just playing with me? What is going on here? HELP!

You need to see this guy and have a long conversation with him face to face and make sure that he wasn't or isn't seeing someone else and then ask him what his short and long term goals are in life only if you are looking for a serious relationship with this guy. Just be sure the two of you are on the same page and have similiar goals in life.

I think you should ask him to come to you and say this to your face to read his body language to see what that tells you. What are your instincts telling you about this? If you are having a bad feeling I would consider ending contact with him or doing something where you can talk to him but not be unsure of the situation.

Well, I'm sorry to say that it sure sounds like he is playing with you. Read your question again. Does that sound like a serious relationship? Do you feel like he cares about you? Do you think it's worth moving for? By going with your heart, you can answer your own question on your own. Best of luck!

it could be he was seeing someone else and that did not work out so now he is trying again with you --- seeing most of the comments here and how guys treat the ladies i would not be surprised if this were true ---- ask him not us if he is serious he will be honest with you --- best wishes

I think that hes toying with you. a year is a long time to go with only a couple of e-mails and phone calls! if he was serious he would have made a serious attempt to stay in contact with you. I say leave him.

Sounds like there was someone else in the picture for a year. She might even still be around. See him if you want to for the fun, but don't take it too seriously or consider moving for him.

sex. you were having sex with a guy you were not committed to, he used you. then he found someone else, dumped you. now she is gone ,he wants some, you are reliable.

sorry.

well to me it seems like mayb he has changed mayb he wasent ready for you the first time like he wasent fully commited to this realtionship wit you but ppl change give him a chance you never wat could happen and if he screms up this time move on wit ur life

That one year 'break' was when he was seeing someone else, that's why the communication stopped. He's apparently broken up with that person and is trying to rekindle your romance.

not sure, ask him.