Am I married to a habitual liar?

Because of severe trust issues that were caused by my husband I have resorted to checking his phone. (I know not a good thing). We were separated for approx. 6 months and decided that we would try again. To be honest I shouldn't even consider the idea. (Within our first year of marriage he cheated on my with an ex or shall I say supposedly ex). Well now fast forward While checking his phone I noticed that every morning he would call this particular number but *67 to block his number. I asked him about it and he said that one of his co-workers calls that number. He said his friend doesn't have a cell phone. Stupid me calls the number and finds out it was a woman. Husband tells me that the reason his friend blocks the number out is because he doesn't want this girl to know husband's phone number. Here's the killer just the other day I noticed that this same number called my husband straight through. On top of that he told me that this women is supposedly married.

You're not married to a habitual liar, you're married to an unfaithful man---lying just goes with the territory.

Don't feel guilty about checking his phone---all is fair in love and war. As far as I'm concerned, he has a history, you were separated, and something probably doesn't feel right in your relationship. You checked his phone to make sure you're not wasting your life on someone who isn't worth it, but you probably didn't need to. You know who he is and what he does. A very good counselor told me one time, "Don't ask questions that you already know the answer to." From an outsider's perspective, your marriage doesn't stand a chance. Statistics alone are against you---once a couple separates, they're rarely able to put their relationship back together.

Apparently he thinks cheating is ok cuz it sounds like he's doing it again. I'm sorry but I think you need to drop him this time. It's too bad you are being hurt again! Did he have a consequence the first time he cheated? He's lying to you to cover up the affair, that's what adulterer's do...they lie...they have to. I'm all for working on marriages post affairs (I currently am doing that) but if this is the second time around it shows he's now serious about being faithful. Good luck to YOU!

Lady, you did not heed the warning signs, that he cheated on you on the first year, do you think hes gonna change himself for you, no chance. He will only change for himself.

I think the best thing is for you to go and enjoy like him,

Well, if you have to resort to checking up on him, given his history, it is time to call it quits or just accept that you are not going to be the only woman in his life.

time for you to tell him what you know, if he still lies, try for some help, if that does no good, you have to make a choice, either stay with him or move on

Old sayings.Once a cheater always a cheater.Once a born liar always a liar.Move on and get over a looser.

unfortunately, it sounds like you already know the answer.

he sure sounds like a liar to me.

I believe you are. It's time for counseling.