Can someone tell me their opinion about this? please be honest?

can someone tell me their honest opinion about this? last year, my cousin from india came to america to take a course for his job. his course was two weeks long. he wanted to come to california for a day, but then he couldnt. i went to visit him and spent three days with him. towards the end of his trip, he kept asking and persuading me to visit india in december, but then i got busy and i didnt go. during that time, i was learning driving. i got my licence a week after he went back to india. i sent him an email and he replied many congrats on getting your getting Driving License. now we know you can drive us around when we are there. when i saw his reply, i thought he was joking, but then he asked me are you guys planning to visit india???. i didnt reply him until i talked to him in august. then in november, my sister went to india for her job. when my cousin met her. he called me and said he was looking forward to seeing me too.

then i told him i got busy, and he said "omg! everyone is busy. then towards the end of april, he calls me and says they might visit me end of may/beginning of june and asked if i was going to be available. do u think the only reason why he wants to visit me is because i can drive them around. is it true that when people from india visit the usa, they go out of their way. my mom wanted him to visit california, but then he got busy and couldnt. well, now he is in new york with his sister. i wasnt going to have time to spend with him if he came here due to school and exams

I think you're ready way too much into the emails. If you're busy, you're busy. He should not try to force you to visit or make you feel guilty for leading your own life.

Be kind but firm and honest. Don't make him think you'll be available as his chauffeur or have time to visit India if you aren't.

What's the big deal? Why does what your cousin think matter so much?