My boyfriend lied to me? :(?

I saw texts on my BF's phone to a girl,the girl told him that 'everytime i see u I want to kiss u' the worst part- my BF text her back & said that he agrees! we talked about it & he said he didnt mean what he said in the text, & he was sorry.. he thought she meant something else, b/c 3 yrs ago they kissed-ONCE. l8r,I was at his house when he got a text, it was from her. I dont care if they chit chat, b/c he explained they were only friends. a min. later I got a text. it was from my BF? I was at his house! it said "hey I'm w/ my family, can I call you later?" I immediately knew that he meant to send that text to the girl. he lied & said the girl sent that to him & he accidentally forwarded it to me. I caught him in the lie, & he admitted it. why would he say he was w/ his family, when he was really w/ me? why would he call her later? he says hes stupid & so sorry & will do anything to show me that he will never do anything to make me loose trust in him again. what do i do

yea she probably doesn't know that he currently has you in his life and your boyfrined is using that to hit on other girls. id say either get a reasonable explanation from him right away or dump his @ss. cheaters are never worth it.

- Locke

awwww babes
i would dump him now otherwise you will make yourself go crazy by wondering wots going on wen they text each other
you sound lyk u deserve much beta than him
kick him out on his **** and get someone who appreciates you and what a good girlfriend you are.
hes lying to you and this girl
if he really wants to be with you, hell fight for you even if you dunp him.
IM/email me if you wana talk about it with someone ok?
xx

wow. sorry hun. he is a jerk. if he hasn't already cheated on you, he is in his mind. if you don't wanna get dumped, you might as well make the first move. this is tough, but you can get through it. or you could make him choose- you or her, but you have to respect that it could go either way.

What he is doing is pretty shady. He probably said he was with family because he doesn't want the other girl to know that he has a gf. Anyways, want to know if he really cares about you? Tell him to stop txt messaging her. If he continues then to then you need to end the relationship. Once he finishes the games w/ her I bet he'll come crawling back. Goodluck!

This girl probably doesnt know he has a girlfriend. He is lyng to you both. Dump him - u can do better. He is a liar and a cheat, or at least a potential cheat. He is ruining your confidence in yourself and your relationship. U deserve better. Be strong and move on xxx

damm that sucks girl ;)

My ex was a lier too and I got soo sick of it..

just give him a second chance.. if he does something like that again..end it ;) trust me u dont wanna be with someone hu u cant trust in

and also..if u can.. try to contact that girl and ask her wats going on.. perhaps grab ur boyfriends phone and take thats girls number so u can txt her ;) then u will rlly kno whats going on

hope it helps xoxo

He obviously has problems telling you the truth. So you need to decide if he's worth it, lies and all, or if you want someone thats respects you.

just dont do anything everone lies sometimes and he said that he wouldn't do it again

Promise me you'll break up with him? you REALLY don't deserve scumbag like him. Let the ex-girlfriend have him, he's obviously not worth it.

She probably doesn't know he has a girlfriend so he can hook up with her. Dump him.

ok. leave him!!!! asap!

he got caught.. that is the only reason he is sorry..
im telling u i have been there and done that..my bf did the same **** to me.. he is probably cheating on u or about to.. i kno this is hard to hear and it is hard to understand.. he said he was with famliy because she probably does not know about you.. and he will call her later to talk to her.. probably before or after he talkes to you.. if u cant trust him its time to let him go.. he doesnt deserve u if he is just gonna cheat on you..

omg sorry to hear that he has 2 girls on the go at the same time once a cheat always a cheat. Try to find someone else that will treat you alot better and that is not a liar!
I bet you had your reasons to check his msgs like him acting weird and stuff and i dont blame you if u hadn't seen those msgs then you would of never had found out coz i bet he would of never told you, move on u don't need him or his lies
It will be hard at first but in the end u'l be thinking ''What the hell was i doing with him?'' and u'l never look back he sounds like sleeze and i hope that other girl finds out about it too! bloody b****d!! good luck x x