Is it really over?

I started dating this guy for 3 months. We see each other every weekend and talk on the phone everyday. Everything is going great until i pressured him with commitment issue. This has been the tension btw us for quite somtimes now. I told him I would let it go and see what would happen in the future.

Last week, he took me on a trip and we had a wonderful time. He kept saying that he wants me to call him more and why did i stop liking him. This past weekend, we spend the whole weekend together. That morning he seems fine and we were affectionate towards each other. That afternoon. He told me we have 2 options, be friends or keep dating at this rate but not move forward because his guts told him he's not ready to w me bf and gf but he doesnt know about the future. I got mad and said we should just stop dating.
Later that night, i asked him and he said he doens't see himself to the end with me. and he would love to still date me exclusively but I should move on

When he told me all this stuff, he also said I really miss you already bt I'm not trying to lead you on. He asks if it was ok if he calls me and I said no, the next day he called me and acted like nothing happend. So i told him to find someone else to comfort his lonliness. I can honestly tell that he likes me because he was the one who calls me and look for me, plan trips with me, gets jealous and mad if i dont' pay attention to him. Why did he say this alll of the sudden?? IS there hope?
Did he just say that because he felt pressured? I was divorced once and just got dumped by his ex. How can he know i'm not the one in 2-3 months? and we just hung out on the weekend. Pls if he doens't like me, why planned a trip together and wants to talk to me everyday. ..
and he's willing to be exclusive with me and at first suggested we should continue dating. After I said no, he said well i just have a hard time letting go, bt unless you put your foot down, i will still be dating you. WTHEck??

how funny similar thing happened to me too...3 months...then he ended it....then still tried to hold on to me...and not let me move on. then i told him to get out of my life....because my gut feeling was telling me that he was playing with my emotions...just wanted to date for fun, have me around to take away his loneliness, and for the free sex without having to play the role of a boyfriend. he was getting it all for free. should we give them that? no. we have needs too and they better meet ours to let us fill theirs. this is very selfish type of relationship...he is immature and is only thinking of himself. obviously doesnt care about ur feelings...his needs are way too more important than yours. and he knows u like him a lot which makes him hold the power to control how this relationship goes. put a stop to it. it hurts i know...because i am going through the same exact thing right now but u and i both have too much respect for ourselves to be subject to this bull sht. we deserve a lot better than this. we just made a very big mistake of falling for the wrong guy. i think its time for both of us to let them go and work for our love. if they dont then its their loss not ours. they already know how much we can give them and love them if only they put in some effort into the relationship. drop the selfish jerk!

yes.....

maybe he is just scared of commitment...?