Does she really still care?

Wow, were to start.... Ok first off let's just break down the basics. Me and my Ex dated for over a year.I abruptly ended it.Because I was scared I really never opened up... Yet she still loved me without thinking.... Fast forward pretty much a year later... (well first let it be noted I told her I was confused as hell needed a time and don't know if we ever would get back together.)

Ok but a year later... Ive sorted my stuff out got my head on straight we both have semi dated other people (tho we are single now) We still during that year span hung out/talked she would call just to hang out at night. It it my like a sack of rocks I love her. She pretty much said I don't know I don't know right away.after that was a lot of heavy disscussion tears between us etc. during all this shes says I want you to fight to be friends, I want you to fight to be best friends and then we will see were we are..

heck I know I hurt her bad bad bad.... I know I did was bad relationship but she was in deep love with me I crushed her.... I want her back so bad but don't know what to do.... she says she doesn't know what her feelings are.... so I ask well are they just friend feelings... every response is I dont know... I can't talk about it anymore to her because I don't want to lose any shot I have..... even after pushing it as I was saying I asks if she wants to grab coffee after work... she responds I can't tonight but how is tomorrow at noon.... I mean if I had no shot she wouldn't respond that quick??? Ugh because I have hurt this girl twice because of my stupid fear's of letting people get close... it's killing me insides and I guess you can call that Karma.... I wanna fight so hard like she wants me too... but I fear getting hurt more in the long run... but its worth risk... I guess I just really want to know how to approach this.

Maybe she still doubts that you actually know what you want.
Hopefully, it isn't too late.


Edit 2:

Be her friend. Give her time. Show her that you have changed. It will work out if you give it all you've got.
Pray.

Sounds like she cares but is still hurt. If you want her back just be relentless and she will break. Only thing you have to deal with after that is the possibility of her throwing the break up in your face every time you get mad at each other.

take it slow, there is no reason to rush back into a relationship if you guys are just going to be back where you were a year ago. Start out as friends and work your way up, it'll work out better that way.

well she is still talking to you and having heavy conversations, I'd say you answered your own question. Don't jerk her around though if you are unsure though. It's up to you to make that call of rekindling or movin on

well before you needed some time now she does. so let her think about it. she was there by your side when you sorted your things now you should do the same for her.

This is the price you must pay for lacking emotional clarity.

sometimes when you need time...it's running out already.

Good luck.

i guess a lil bit...

she will cry out loud...

all a warrior can do is keep fighting.love is a battle-field baby!even if u r ur own opponent.

I think she does care but I think the first time you were both in an actual relationship you hurt her. She wouldn't still be around if she didn't have some feelings left for you, but she remembers how much it hurt her the first time you walked out the door. So I can't say I blame her for being reluctant to just jump into admiting she's in love with you all over again. She probably wants to make sure you seriously mean what you say before she decides wether or not to put her heart back into it.

And if you ask me she's smart.... one of the strongest types of love stem from a friendship first.

Added: If you really love her, then don't worry about what the "risk" is, jump in... Because you can never truly appreciate love if you don't risk your own heart, you can't fully understand it if you don't put everything you have into it.

And if it doesn't work out, take what you learned from it and grow, don't close down. You can learn to truly appreciate what it feels like to be in love because you'll understand all sides of it, even the loss. In turn it will make you a better person.

But, I think you should respect her wishes and fight for her like she asked you to, she wouldn't have asked you to if she didn't want you to.