Serious friends/ boyfriend holiday dilemma!!!?

I know that you should always put your friends before your boyfriend 鈥?but I have a serious dilemma!!

O.K 鈥?Me, my 2 best friends and some other girls arranged to stay in my friends beach- hut in Devon for a week this summer. We鈥檝e really been looking forward to it, but today my boyfriend called and said he鈥檚 booked for us to stay in an amazing hotel in the south of France with his parents 鈥?and I don鈥檛 have to pay a thing..
BUT it鈥檚 the same time I鈥檓 going away with my friends.. I forgot to tell him when I was going..

- Both holidays look amazing
- These are my best friends and I鈥檓 going travailing with them next year..
- The beach- hut was arranged first..
- Both will be upset if I cant make it
- I鈥檓 going away on weekend breaks with both of them over the summer..
- I鈥檓 crazy about my boyfriend but he鈥檚 going to university in September, and we will probably split up 鈥?maybe this means I shouldn鈥檛 care as much 鈥?but I do, and really want to make the most of the time we do have together

Right 鈥?logically I can see I should go away with my friends, but I equally want to go with my boyfriend, and he鈥檚 really upset about it.. and so are they..

Please someone 鈥?WHAT SHOULD I DO???!!!

If I were you I would go to FRANCE all the way since I love it and it's beautiful and very romantic place to go(how sweet of you boyfriend to let you go with him) Anyways I would think logically your friends do come first and you can always find another boyfriend, but it's hard to find new friend because if you loose the friend you have they might go behind you back and tell everyone what a jerk ou where and nobody might want to be friends with you. If your boyfriend really loved you he would understand how important this to you. Plus, your friend will see how caring you are and so will your boyfriend. I swear you will find someone new I did the same thing I loved one boy so much I was crazy over him then he lied to me and I broke up with him because my mom said for me to do that and she said that you will find someone better and I did within 1 week and now we've been together for about 5 and a half years with no lying or arguing=) I wish you lots of luck and most of all believe....

Go to france with your BF for the first half of the week, then go to the beach with your friends for the other half. Your friends may be a little shocked or angry at first, but at least you'll have some time with both of them.

I think you have already almost answered your own question. You should go with your friends. If he was your husband...that would be different. Men come and go but real friends stick around. If he loves you he will get over it. Besides he needs to spend some quality time with his parents!

go to france its so much better than deven lol
no you should go with your friends as you arranged it with them first..or if you can deside flip a coin

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