If shes not interested, is it messed up to choose this type of rejection? Please read. best answer 10 points?

I've known her for four years. we have always been really good friends. Never had any problems at all. But I had feelings for her. I have asked her out before but told me she was too busy. Then I made kind of a last attempt and got her a gift for valentines day. Surprisingly she responded to it and asked me to prom (as a date). We've been on a date before and she even (before me) suggested to go out again. So prom comes (I paid for her ticket and limo ride $200+) but she makes it the best night I've ever had - We graduate and summer comes. I was really looking forward to slowly taking our relationship further. But I've been calling her and she dosen't answer or dosent return my calls. I've left messages and still nothing. I finally get ahold of her for literally 3 minutes before she cuts the conversation off. She tells me shes very busy - For which I know she is. She has two busy jobs.

I feel used..

But you can answer the question now that you have my point of view.

well all i can say is if she is rejecting you the way she is maybe she's not worth your time. find someone that will give you the respect that you deserve. i know it would be hard to imagine being with out her and it could take a while but try dating some other people! you sound like agood guy and you deserve better.

She only wants to be friends at most and doesn't know how to tell you knowing how you feel for her so instead of explaining she is just avoiding the whole situation altogether. Sorry this isn't what you want to hear but it's what it looks like.

i think she did use you....she did like you has a friend but when ever she felt that she need an ego boost or some one to make the time go by she called you.you should really forget about her and move on.she cares very little about you and your emotions.

That is messed up, but alot of the time people are scared to break off relationships because they are being a jackass...or they are a puss. I have done this before, and i felt terrible. Im sorry this happened to you.

well you kind of answered your own question she is busy and doesn't have time for you or anybody else for that matter, the best thing to do is stay friends and find yourself someone that does have time for you.