Ok so heres the story....me and my bf(we broke upa month ago and are going slow?

on getting back together)...anyways we were supposed to go on a date tonight, well that got canned cause he read the headline on my facebook I wrote "just cause someone doesnt want you, doesnt mean no one does"..it wasnt even sent to him,just my headline, which i change about 5 times a day, well anyways he saw it and sent me a message saying"well then, let them take you out to dinner, morebullshit as usual", what i dont get is that a day ago we went out and had a good time, he was nice and said he looking forward to dinner...so now how does one little headline make him completly change his mind? I called him at lunch and told him it was nothing personal, and he yelled at me and hung up. this is the same man who said he misses me a day. what did i do that was so wrong and how can i get back our dinner plans tonight? he is 38 and im 27. i apolized like 10 times already.

btw he knew i was looking forward to this too. how can he just do this without seeing that is was no biggie...i want to go out with him tonight, but he wont answer his phone right now or text, he will be home from work at 5, whcih is in 20 mnutes...should i try calling him again after?

Advice to you both . . . make NO idol threats, even on stupid logo signs that you change often, now he and you both may eat alone. And if he threatens saying "let THEM", take you out he must be prepared to watch it happen because there's probably many out there who will.

I would have thought you were teenagers or early 20's. He is breaking up or mad at you over something on Facebook? Sounds like a total toolbox. Just thank him for making it easy on you and go out with someone that is not that insecure. For being 38 he is a baby.

Don't ever call him again. Don't bother that punk.

You are 27....most of the friends sites on the internet are for teenagers trying to find themselves....which usually ends out messing things up in the first place. If you are interested in getting a real life, then you have to go real all the way. Forget the personal sites and all that junk. If you take it seriously, he will.

Be happy, you just ditched a 38 year old facebook user.

You two need space..hopefully enough time to grow the hell up.
Get off facebook. you should be EMBARRASSED to admit you are on it 5x a day?! He should be ashamed to be 38 and on it.

SPACE. Spend a mandatory month apart. No contact, sister.

He is very immature for a 38 year old.

i say u find someone else he obiviously have a temper problem and nobody wants to live with that!

text him your sorry and buy him something

geez I thought you 2 were in high school, if he's acting like that and he's 38 you don't need him.

hes a grumpy ol' man.

You should, and be quick to tell him that the headline on your facebook page had nothing to do with him. Then tell him how you really feel about him. Apologize as many times as it takes.

dude you should give him some space and try talking to him later. besides he is 10 years older than you and there ar a lot more fish in the sea!

gosh isnt he a little old to be using facebook... anyways untill i read ur ages i though u were in hight school or middle school....
u need to get over him, he is an immmature guy who takes things way to personally... and sounds like hes self centered

I'm sorry. This sounds so petty & stupid. It just reminds me of High School. He's pissed about your page, you add stupid quotes to get attention . . . just please don't pursue this. And since when does a guy send you a "message" telling you he wants to take you out for dinner. It's safe. If he gets rejected or whatever nobody cares. You can just pretend you never read it. It's not an adult way of being. He should have called you directly to hear your voice & asked you to dinner. He's a punk & you're immature. Nuff said.

If you keep calling this guy you are nuts. Sorry but he is playing you for a complete fool. It is like he is just using that facebook thing as an excuse to ditch you tonight. Call one of your friends and go out to dinner with them. Why sit around waitng to go out to dinner with someone that yelled at youand hung up?

You can't make someone come to you. Do you really want to be with a guy you have to force to want you???

honestly... no dont call him.. i think he is just playing with ur mind..not critizeing him but.. for him to have reacted the way he did just by reading what u wrote tells me two things.. he isnt mature enough and needs to grow up... or he knows he holds the cards and knows how to play them good.. i am sure there are other men out there who gladly would like to go out with u.. u deserve someone who u can trust and rely on.. u called him many times and he isnt picking up.. dont call him no more let him cool down and let him call u... good luck

Once you have done all you can do then you have to set back and wait if he love you and you are not trying to get in touch with him then you can bet that he will start looking for you when you are no longer trying so hard. Some men are just like that they don't want you to try so hard they like to think that they are in charge and we as women should just let them think that but you stay in the driver seat just make him think that he is driving the car.....