Personal disaster?

hi, i have improved very good decent friendship with a girl, initially , and then after few days for some unknown reason he rejected the friendship, on that day i have try calling her for almost 4 hours , but in vain,
then i realised that some thing above friendship had improved inside me towards her,
but it took 1 year almost to forget her, but it affected mr carrer , i lost the promotion and annual hike completely, again a mental pressure addition to this personal disaster,
i become extremely sorrow, and i am not good looking , matter is i am even not average looking too skinny , and i lost all the confidence , but some how i regained things again a liitle , and leading the life ,
i had all the talents and i failed in all the matter . my opinion changed in many things, anyhow i digested every thing, , i was hurted severly by her ,
Bacause rejected by a person , who you cared (not loved!!) much is a big sorrow to a person!!
what you advice ..looking forward

focus on career now....

U should not allow your emotions to sway away the path, commitments to job / family taken by you.

It is traumatic, we agree but then the grit with which you overcome shall get you perhaps a better person as Partner in life.
We shall send Motivational capsule, if you write to us ''in confidence''

dude maybe you got rejected coz you can't handle rejection......c'mon yaar any1 or anything in this world is a part of your life.they are not your life!you get it right?a part of your life and not your entire life......so if one part of yoour life doesn't seem good move to the better part....basically do what pleases you...if the girl realises like you that there was something more than just friendship and that she too is missing it then trust me she will come looking for you....but you don't go wasting your time waiting for that day......start boosting your confidence by becomming a social butterfly....go out for a party with your friends.....try harmless flirting with unknown girls....i suggest harmless flirting because maybe you need to brush your flirting skills.........and if you happen to need some help to get over your so called depression i know some1....here is the id-teenprob_help@yahoo.com....

Definitely you have derailed your career by yourself. First of all you should get rid of her from your mind and concentrate on useful things. Nothing is too late to start. Forget your past. Start a fresh life. Life should be purposeful, not painful. Forgive & forget. Also do not jump to the conclusion that all girls are traitors etc. Get along with your life and on the way if you happen to come across any girl, who loves you (not whom you love) get married and settle in your life. Life is too precious to be wasted on trivial things. Looks does not decide anything. Don't get prejudiced by your physical thing. Your mind should be strong. Arise, awake and stop not till the goal is reached. Wish you all the best.