How do i break up with my girlfriend of a year?

she has done really shitty things to me yet i overlook them everytime thinking she'll change and get better... it started out with her telling her ex she loved him 4 montrhs into our relationship... then she went to a concert with a friend... her friend hooked up with the band guys and i found my girlfriend chatting with them and telling her she would party with them... now her BEST GUY FRIEND calls her in the middle of the night when she's with me. 2day ive had it my friend was texting her and she forwarded the messages of him talking about partying with him and that he was naked... im going tonight to see her outbox on her phone... its my firstt long term girlfriend and its going to really tear me up inside. how should i go about this? thanks everyone

You might just tell her that her behavior demonstrates that she has no respect for your or the relationship.

It is difficult to break up, but it will be even more difficult to stay in a relationship with a person who obviously enjoys tortuting you with her flirting and other antics.

There are too many nice people out there for you to waste time on one who obviously doesn't care.

Take care of you first. Break it off, pull yourself together and move forward.

Good luck.

If its going to tear you up inside than I'd say hold on and don't break up yet. Start expanding yourself first, meaning find other girls that you like and if you want you should party with them. After finding a group of people that you are comfortable with and that are fun to be around, starting looking for another girl. If you find another girl that you like, than break up with your current girlfriend. This way, you won't have to endure the pain of breaking up with this girl.

The best thing to do right now is for you to just let her know how you feel.

Be honest with her, tell her she's frustrating you and you just dont feel that you're both on the same page anymore. You don't hate her, in fact, it's going to be a little hard, but you're doing this for both of you.

You know that staying with her will only hurt you more. Time heals all wounds; I hope you find the strength to move on.

well, i'm sorry, but even though she is your gf, her outbox on her phone is none of your buisness. But she does sound like a crappy gf, so yea,you can either talk to her and tell her all the crap that bugging you, or dump her. either way, if you get into her phone and read her msg's, that right there is illegal.

if she's acting like this then you need to get it over with, especially since you've already talked to her about it.
try something like . . . . this is hurting me just as much as its gonna hurt you. but you've changed. i've tried to help andt deal with the way you've been acting. but its just not working. you've said you would change and that never happened. i feel like i'm the only one thats trying, and if you don't want to, then i'm done.

i dont think you should break up with her frist just sey that if she dosent stop what she doing very soon you will break up with her and if she stops then good. but if she does not then you should break up with her she might be doing those things bc she think you approve of them and if you make it very clear that she needs to be on a tight leash then maybe she will listen to you and if she dosent then shes not worth it

don't let her convice you to give her another chance..just remind yourself of all of the things she's done and that you don't need that kind of drama around you..a real girlfriend doesn't do stuff like that..maybe make an appt to do something afterwards with a friend so you don't get tempted to stay and make it a long, drawn-out thing..

okay me being a girl this is CRAZY!! why stay with a girl that does this too you come on man get some eyes cant you see this isn't even a relationship a relation ship is when both people try to make something work and right now u are the only one you in a one side relationship say too her its me or the cheating crazy life you liven now or just dump her your choice but you cant let it go on this way

well, you could say something like: you are an amazing person, and i don't want to do anything that wuld hurt you, but i think it would be better for us if we took a break, (then explain your reasons) and then tell her that you still want 2 be friends, and that you are really sorry.

Good Luck!

simple jus tell its not really workin out... u feel a bit lost and like out of it and that u care about her but u jus cant do this relationship thing anymore and u hope she'll understand but u need ur space and sum time for urself to think and yea basically its jus not workin for u anymore and that ur sorry.

i think you should just be honest about how you feel and how she treated you! you deserve someone who appreciates you for you! go find yourself another gurl that loves you and not her other male friends! i know its gonna hurt but u need to let her know how you feel because shes just going to keep hurting you!

i think that she is probably a bit of a "player" breaking up with her would be better as u cant keep makin up excuses for her its not fair on you. just tell her how you feel and if it doesnt resolve in an answer end it, its 4 the best, im sure u deserve sum1 betta.

tell her you guys are DUNZO!!!! sounds like its all her fault so shes either asking for it, or knows its coming. you know in your heart that you can do better otherwise you wouldnt be asking this question. sure it might take a while but dont give up! YOUR OWN happiness should be your first priority.

i'd just tell her everything you put here.
she hurt you, and its not all about her.
your feelings are important right now too.
just say i know how you've been acting and i like you, but i cant take it.

she put this on herself, you didnt. good luck :)

dont ignore her, thats the worst thing someone could do. tell her straight out that you do like her but you dont like the way shes treating the relationship and end it right there.

I say you just have a good talk with her and make sure you let her down gently. Say you still want to be friends that way, you and her wont take it so harshly.

Ask her what she wants, first. If she says you but it sounds like bs then tell her she parties too hard and too much, and that it isn't working for you. Hope it turns out okay.

Just do it. Once it's done though, don't go back on your decission. If you do, you will be in a yo-yo relationship. Those can last for years and just put your life in limbo

you should of dumped her a long time ago. just tell her it's not working out, and have a nice life. i'm sure she'll be happy to spread her legs to her so call best guy friend.

sorry dude shes not treating you right and playing games let her go life goes on it might take awhile but you'l find another to take that brouds place

Hit it one last time, real good. Then get up, put your clothes on, and tell her goodbye. Walk on out of that door and get on with your life without her.

Should have taken care of business 8 months ago. Just do it.

First stop the bleeding. Then the healing can start.

Tell her your relationship is over, tell her why, then say goodbye and mean it. She sounds like trouble.

Just stop calling her or taking her calls.
Ignore the F out of her.

Simply tell her that you deserve better. You will get over the hurt in time, and find someone to treat you like you should be treated. WITH RESPECT!

Just tell her she is not right for you and you are moving on. (This advice assumes you do not have children with her)

just tell her "i know you have feelings for another person, so its best if we just leave eachother"

just be honest

just be honest and tell her how you feel

do the same to her

let her catch you in bed with me