FEMALES, I need your Help PLEASE?

Here goes: GF of 1.5 yrs broke up w/ me 2 weeks ago after saying she was not in love w/ me anymore and does'nt see me romantically. We broke up once before, after dating for 1 year b/c I did become clingy/gave too much attention to her. When we were broken up we still hung out and got back together after being apart 1 month. Fast forward to now, we've been apart 2.5 weeks, I saw her last week cuz I asked her to lunch and just told her in person I accept and respect your feeling and I would be selfish to expect you to stay if your not happy. Then 7 days ago I called and told her I still wanted her in my life (she Is my best friend) and told me she needs a clean break from me and cant be what I want now. So, not sure what to do since: during our first breakup i kinda pushed her a little and we ended up seeing each other(having contact) and she came around. I dont know what to do i am really afraid she will forget about me or by giving her space this will help her get over me, I miss her

Also, when we spoke last week, I told her I wanna meet for lunch or something like that. I tried to make plans for last sunday but she said this week, and she would call me when she knows her schedule. This girl has never done this to me before. Today is wednesday. Should I follow up and try to arrange for a coffee meeting (its been a week since talking) and she is supposed to call me, or should I leave it alone? I wake up missing her more than ever, doesnt she miss me?

Hi, I'm sorry to hear about your break-up. I think you have got to come to terms with the fact that, your ex girlfriend really does'nt want anything to do with you or the relationship you had. I think she is correct in telling you that she does'nt want any contact, as this only makes things more difficult to get over and move on. If you really do still love her, then let her be happy and leave her alone. I know this is difficult to accept, but you cannot force her to love you or want to be with you.Give yourself time to get over this, and you will be able to move on from this. be strong and good luck!

There is nothing a girl wants more than a guy she cant have.. give her space, go on, get out there!! she'll come around. you can't push her into a relationship, cuz it'll only work out for a couple of months and she'll be off again..

Sounds like she wants some space. She may be trying to sort out her feelings for you. I am sure you do miss her but perhaps you can give her a little more time and then you can ask her for coffee...

Buddy let it go. She is done but she is trying to be kind about it. Quit calling her, quit trying to make dates, quit hoping for something that is over. Move on.

She doesn't want to be with you, sorry. Give her her space and if it's meant to be, she'll come back but just let her go and move on.

The more that you ignore her the better the chance to get her back. Give it another week. If she doesn't contact you at all ... then she's just not interested.

just leave her alone! if she wants you she will come back.... if she doesnt then she dont want u! get a hold of urself have some respect for you!

oh i think leave it be...she wants something else sorry

Didn't you ask this question yesterday, pick a best answer already we told you to leave her alone, she doesn't want to be with you and you pressure her in to taking invitations.. When a lady tells you things like I have to check my schedule that is so a I don't want nothing to do with you line!! get over it.. what is next stalking her?? wake up and smell the coffee she doesn't want anything to do with you.. good luck.

nope she changed hun ..she is NOT like the first breakup this time she just wants you to back off so do it..because this time if you keep hounding her she will not even want to talk to you again..I would let her go as THIS is waht she wants
She sounds like she did not really love you to begin with and if it were me i would write her off and say SEE YOU

If you really love this girl, you need to give her space. Sometimes letting go is best. Relationship is a two way deal, if one can't live with it any longer, the other must understand that. Everything happens for a reason. Sometimes our difficulties and heartaches in life are bridges of growth. Who knows you might find someone better who deserves your love, who will treat you good and someone who will cherish and take care of you the way you deserve to be treated. Give justice to yourself. Get a life and never cease believing.

Well you obviously can't push her to be with you if she doesn't want to.....instead try focusing on making her WANT to be with you. She's asking for space....so that's what you give her...all the space she needs. Give her time to think about everything that's going on in her life and about the relationship.....but you're also giving her time to miss you as well. You've been in a relationship with her for over a year...I'm pretty sure she has gotten used to you being around and etc etc...being there. So when you give her the space and she realizes how you not being there isn't such a great thing...she'll definitely come around. Girls for some weird reason go for guys that "act" like they aren't interested...or they don't care. So try not to be so clingy to her at this moment....just pretend you're doing fine and keep yourself busy with activities. This might not be such a bad thing...you should re-evaluate yourself as well...and the relationship. Time alone is not always a bad thing...it can be a time to rejuvenate..relax..and just go with the flow. Good luck!

i feel for you....pretty much the same thing is happening to me. you need to wait. i dont know how else to put it. if she is giving you the cold shoulder, its because she isnt ready. you must respect that. my bf is doing the same thing she is doing to you. i did the whole "i want you...i need you in my life" bit and it hasnt worked. i realized that people come around in their own time. if she cant handle how much you love her, dont waste your time. you sound like a great guy who is ready for love, but maybe she's not and thats OK because who knows, maybe this is preparation for a bigger and better love. you have to be hurt to appreciate love for all it is worth. i hope this helps.....i know its hard but sometimes its better to just let go. maybe if she misses you after emotionless men, she will realize what she is missing out on. good luck!

Listen mate if she doesnt think of you thar way, you should try and move on without her.
sounds harsh but i kept trying to keep up the friendship with my exboyfriend, convinced that he would want me back if he saw that i was so in love with him. It turned out he wanted me to p*ss off and i still try my hardest not to think about him.
Slowly, you'll begin to not miss her as much and you will meet another great girl who feels the same way about you.
Good luck and get yourself out there with all the single babes!
xx

If you and her are ment to be, then it will happen, you were together, broke up, and then got back together, and now she wants a break, I would give her a break and not bother her or call her. I would just set her free.

There is an old saying, "if you love something, let it go, if it comes back to you it is yours, if it does not, then it was never ment to be yours". It is so true.

Just live your life and know that if she does not come back to you, then God has another someone out there for you.

Keep the faith, there is someone for everyone!

It takes two to tango. Sounds like she does not want to tango. Best bet is to let it go, stop bothering her and see if she calls you. If there is something there and she still loves you deep down then she will come back. In the mean time, stop calling! She will only get angry

Best of luck.
We all have to let go sometimes, as hard as it is, we manage, survive and learn from our experiences.