I'm not sure what to do now...?

I'm 17 and I like this guy.
The thing is he lives three hours away.
I was making plans to go down to where he lives...he doesn't really know that though.

I knew he liked a girl because about 4 months ago he asked me for help with her..but I didn't give it to him because she seemed like a screw up (doing the wrong things....)

Since then I felt like he led me on a little bit...saying things to make me feel better...calling me "sexy"...when i was coming down to see him at school (boarding school) he said he was looking forward to it. after we saw each other he said it was nice to see me.

I was going to tell him I liked him.
The thing is he is back at home now and still likes this girl.
Would it be bad for me to tell him I like him?
I don't mind telling him I'm just not sure it will be a good idea.
And I'm not too sure this girl likes him like he wants her to.

Thanks!

Are you aware of how desperate you sound and are behaiving? How man times are you goint to ask this very same question? I have already answered it. There are reasons no one is answering you.

Your judgemental attitude makes it even more pathetic.

I think your inexperience is causing you to act this way. But without experience, how can you learn. Find someone closer that lives by you. Date and learn. Who cares if he is not up to your standards. You are trying to get experience at your age.

Then, as you progess, learn more you can do better for yourself. And love him with all your heart and soul. You will be much happier.

Good luck