GO AFTER HER or WAITING GAME???? (GUYS & GIRLS HELP OUT)?

i've talked to this girls a handful of times after class and we have met up for coffee to do school-related work ..but along they way i;'ve gotten to know her alot about her personal life and work and everything else.....she actually approached me one day and that's how everything started...but last week i text her and called her just once and never got a replied on text nor a call back...but she goes to school full-time and works full-time...so 2morrow is the last day of the semester and i want to tell her how i feel. i like her and i want to pursue something more than a "friendship"...but my question is should i be honest and straight forward ???or just try to continue talking to her to see what happens.???? (i'm getting mixed signals we've talked for hours but then she won't reply my texts or calls)

Sorry bud, you blew it.

You should have asked her out on a coffee date when she approached you, instead of doing the friend/classmate dance. Let's break this down, she approached you! How many times has that happened in your life? Not many. She was putting her ego on the line when she approached you. What did you do? Nothing. Bad move on your part.

I believe it's too late. She is not returning your phone calls and is giving you mixed signals. When a woman likes you she does not give you mixed signals, she is sure about what she wants and it comes across crystal clear. Another words, when she likes you she will do everything to help you.

Moreover, you NEVER want to tell a woman how you feel - EVER. You can tell your family and friends how you feel, not the woman you are romantically interested in or involved with. When a woman earns your love you will SHOW her how you feel, but never tell her outright. This is a simple concept of being challenging. A woman loves a challenge and she loves to chase, throwing your feeling out there is not challenging. Write that down and remember it.

Here's what I would do.

Give her a call; if she picks up ask her out on a date, if she accepts without hesitation you still have a chance. If she gives you any hint of hesitation or gives you "ummm鈥 have a lot of homework" line or anything similar, tell her "Okay, maybe some other time. Have a good day", then hang up, erase her number and forget her. If she doesn't pick up don't leave a message and don't send her anymore text messages; you'll only seem desperate. Instead, call her again the following week, if she doesn't pick up again, forget her.

If you get the date, take it slow and don't share you feelings - if you have an uncontrollable urge to blurt out your life story, call your friend and do it to him instead of her.

Best of luck.

Call her once more and leave a voice message if she doesn't pick up. Then you've done all you can do.