I'm in a LDR but he rarely communicates with me.. what should I do?

we're married for a 6 months now & i'm pregnant. My husband went to continue his BS 3 months agoin a place that is 2 hrs far by plane.
My husband never told me he was planning to go back to school until AFTER our honeymoon..
I supported him b/c I love him & dont want to be selfish since I'm crrently in graduate school. My sister tells me maybe that is the reason he wants to study to match my degree and maybe b/c my salary is 3 times more than his.
I dont care! We knew that before we got married.
I used to call him every 2-3 days and text him. He rarely calls. I sent him a present on his b-day but he ignored my b-day & didnt even call.
it hurts. I stopped calling & texting him to see if he cares. I just email random forwards to let him know I'm alive. he never respons.
He doesnt want me visiting him and it's been 2 months since he has been here. and if this was not enough, he's doing really bad at school.
I feel lonely, confused & angery.
I miss him

He is not mad or anything.. when I call he answers but he never initiate communication..
I just texted him in a "casual" tone that says "hello there.. long time since we heard from you.. what's keeping you so busy =) " it's been an hour and no response.. I can call & i know he'll answer.. but I'm done with running after him.. he is the husband.. shouldn't he be the one to calling me?

A relative of mine once said about long distance relationships, that if he cares about you, he will call. He did care enough, at one time, to marry you.

Since you seem at the end of your rope, it may be time to level with him and tell him how you feel. Tell him you are sensing that he doesn't care the same as he did before and you can't live with that. Tell him you want to do something to help the situation and ask him how he feels.

If at all possible, it would be best if you could live in the same town. I assume you would be if you could, but consider all kinds of possibilities you can think of to see if it can be possible some way.

Try to get things out in the open as soon as possible, the more they are hidden the more they grow and get worse. Hopefully it is not past the point of repair.

Good luck.

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