Why is it so frustrating when someone stands you up over and over?

I have been seeing this woman on and off for over a year. We were bf/gf and then she told me she was seeing someone else. She said she wanted to be with me. That was about 6 months ago. She has been dealing with a lot of family problems and health problems as well as past child abuse so I am being patient and giving her some space. Last weekend I told her that I could be patient but she had to stop making promises and not keeping them. She said she understood and she would not say she could do something. She said I will see you before monday because I don't know what day I'll be free. Yesterday I asked her what she had planned for the night and she said she was helping people move and I said so I will see you tomorrow and she said yes. Then this morning she text and said she was still out of town working and wouldn't be back til tomorrow and wanted to know what time I was off work tomorrow. She called this evening and said she was looking forward to seeing me but wouldn't say

when she'd be home tomorrow. Considering our past I just wonder why she'd say we could do something today unless she didn't know she had to work. I know she loves me and she knows I love her, but it is so hard to just wait around wondering if she will keep plans tomorrow of I'll be stood up again.

It sounds like you need to have a discussion with her to let her know how it hurts you to be stood up and how important it is to you to have a reliable companion. She if she changes her behavior. If not, you have to decide how much you can take.

Break off the relationship and move on. If she really wants to be with you she'll realize it later on, but by then it will be too late and she will have lost her chance to be with you.

I cant believe you are falling for her lies, over and over. She don't Love you, get that straight and move on with your life away from her.

Because it sucks