Ok so i need help.. anwser asap please?

i told my that i was going to a friends house to stay the night..
well we snuck out and got caught...( we got caught smokeing)
and drinking...so the cops bought me home... and my mom yelled at me....so i was punishedmy step dad wanted to whip me but my mom told him no... so then i decided to skip school...and got caught again.....well this time my moms not home...and its me,my step dad and brother so the police called my dad and he said i could look forward to a tanned a$$
but i think im to old.....do you think i deserve this..im 14..what would you do to me if i was your kid??

my dad wrote something on here called ok so i need help

No, you are not too old to be spanked....you deserve it but it should be your mom who ultimately decides how you are punished. I would spank your butt good and then take EVERYTHING out of your room except your bed and clothes. And don't even think about going to friends' houses, talking on the phone, playing on the computer, etc, etc. If you were my kid I might even make you pee in a cup to be sure your not using drugs. I might even take you to a counselor and this summer you would be sitting summer school retaking English and Grammar. Smoking and drinking is bad enough but lying and skipping school is going to lead you down a path you don't want to go down. Pull your head out of your butt, find a better class of friends and get your crap together.

Tanning is child abuse and I'd have him arrested for harassment if he even brought it up and if he did It, I'd go into a hospital and have them treat me, write up a report, take the report to the cops, charge him with assault, get a criminal order of protection against bn8ik preventing him from stepping within 500 yeards of the house, even if mom says not to dioing it. If mom won't protect you if you got beaten and tanned, I'd charge mom with endangering your life and have her arrested too.

Meanwhile, why are you acting out? no love at home I suppose. Start loving yourself.

Read How To Be Your Own Best Friend.

Just don't do things like that and think that you will get away with it.

When you are repeating the situations like that it is causes lack of trust from your parents...you need to think that they are out for your well being. The hitting is not good and I think you need to sit down and ask him why he thinks it will work for you? Tell him that you just need for him to tell you why things are so wrong in what you do. You should know better then that. It is dangerous and you can end up killed. What would you do as a parent? I will be worried sick when I become a mother...