Cake n icecream my ***?

yea the dude i was tlking about i made up my mind wat to do. the one who flooded my apartment n took my microwave to break me while iam 7mnths pregnant. he put a girl on d phone lied sayin iam herassing him to make me mad wen i dnt answer the phone. he calls back appologizing saying she was his ainny (please) txting me threats stll. Well hes on papers now his parole officer is 5 minutes away from my house. iam 18 hes 22 and i knw dis is too far and childissed. He keeps txting he loves me so i forwarded them back to d girl. So i see him with her at the time wen hes not blowin up my phone-he looked sad as hell . Iam scared to stay hme alone he say hes gona break my window or burn down my apt. I have a 2yr old. Should i file a restraining order and go to his parole officer show her the txt and threats he keeps tryna hurt me wen i dnt answer my phone he pops up at my house wen his lil mama ain there. Cake N IceCream? should i change my num to prove to her its him chasen me? please help me!

Yes do all of the above, change your number, go to the police and get a restraining order. Do you want your children to go thru the same thing? You should stop the madness right now. I had a similar experience and it did not turn out good until I left the entire situation alone. You may still have feelings for him that is okay, but you need to learn to let him go. Trust me you will be better off in the end.

u must at all costs file a restraining order
phone up the police authority do all u can
don't be aggressive on that person but at the same time don't fear him or take his threats
if u have evidence, use it against him wit the police

stay calm but be quick about things

In my opinion, the police are never an option. Never. I don't think people should get strangers (the police are strangers, whether we like it or not - just because they have a peice of metal in the shape of a badge doesn't mean we should welcome them into our personal lives) to handle their problems. I just don't think it's right. Because as soon as our asses are getting locked up and going to jail, it's, "F.u.c.k. the police." So why not just say "F.u.c.k. the police," forever!? They aren't put here to help you, girl. Especially since you're a minority. They are here to hurt you, and to swindle you, and to be crooked, and to FIND things wrong with you. Who knows, they might get there and say they need to get CPS (child protective services) involved and before you know it you're losing your baby. Don't do it, girl. People that put other people behind bars (basically the police!) are NOT compassionate, real or anything - they're barely even human. We don't need strangers to handle our bizz. Get a boy or man that you know to either kick his azz or sit him down and talk to him to make him stop. And if he doesn't, and he tries to do some shyt - retaliate. Hard. F.u.c.k. his whole world up the way he attempts to do you. Don't call the cops. The cops DO NOT want to help you, a young black mother. I know they don't because they are all power-tripping crazy loser azzholes who barely graduated high school. They're not even educated enough to be able to use reasoning to help you. To me, the police are like Santa - I just don't believe in them.