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Ok, so my fiance and I have been together for a little over six years. We were having a few issues with him being controlling and his mother constantly interfering in our relationship. We've gone to councelling and is still planning on moving forward with the wedding next June, however, his mother is still in our lives and she's really starting to get to me. I mean I understand that that is her child and she wants to be involved but he's a grown a** man and it's pissing me off. What upsets me even more is that he's not standing up to her and letting her know that she's putting a strain our relationship. I am really contemplating calling off the wedding becausr I can no longer deal with her constantly interrupting our relationship. Please help. What should I do???

Trust me guys, I've thought about moving away but she loves to drive so there is no escaping her. Don't get me wrong, she's a great lady and we get along just fine, except I can't stand her meddling and it's driving me nuts

Kensington, things are never going to change. If you think that his mother is meddling now just wait until you're married, it's only going to get worst. Have you tried talking to him and letting him know how you feel about his mother's constant presents in your lives? If you haven't, now would be a good time to do so. Then the three of you should have a sit down and set boundaries. There is no worst feeling than a meddling in law, ,trust me, I know. If that doesn't work, then it's time you give him and his mother their walking papers. Best Wishes

you need to ask yourself is he worth it because he is a momma's boy so do you want to live with that? this is what you call a red flag so do you ignore it and go on because if you do you have no reason or grounds to complain later. No one is forcing you into marriage its a choice and a decision you have total control over.

Get out NOW while there is still a chance. My parents are the same as his and it already cost me one marriage. There were other issues but nothing compared to them wanting control. They just plain hate who I am married to now but still try to control how I raise my children. You will be miserable for a long time and marriage is hard enough with two involved. Add a third to the mix and it is a recipe for disaster.

OH OH. HONEY TWO WORDS 'MOVE ON'

RELATIONSHIPS LIKE THESE DO NOT SURVIVE. FIRST THE OBSESSION WITH CONTROL, LIKE HIS MOTHER AND ON TOP A MOTHER WHO HAS OBSESSION WITH CONTROL. A NO WIN SITUATION, ESPECIALLY IF THE "MAN" IS NOT WILLING TO KEEP HIS MOTHER FROM INTERFERING.

FIND A MORE SELF CONTAINED, AND SECURE MAN, THIS ONE HAS INSECURITY WRITTEN ALL OVER HIM.

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