How do I work peacably with the girl my ex cheated on me with?

I was dating this guy we'll call him C. One night C got really drunk and tried to sleep with his ex-gf at a party that I was at! He literally carried upstairs into the bedroom I was sleeping in! The whole time I'm sitting there watching this, til his friend finally got his attention. The girl left (or something) and I tried to leave too, but he wouldn't let me, so I waited til he sobered up and broke up with him the next morning.
Ok, fast forward a year or more...I just got a new job in a new city that I'm gonna be moving to in a few months....and realized THIS GIRL WORKS WITH ME!!! I had a ten minute conversation with her yesterday, and she's really nice. But, C's roommate also works there, and has already told everyone how he knows me! So if she hasn't figured out who I am by now, she will. Apparently my ex is quite the ladies man, and has probably slept with others there. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!? Oh yeah, and his ex was in love with him! Much more than me! She might be hostile!

If you still care about him make sure you dress to the tee at work. It WILL get back to him...all the while act like you are soooo in love with someone else. It will keep her off your back, but she will be jealous because of how cute you look at work. I'm sure other co-workers will make it worse by commenting on how cute you are! That keeps you in the clear because you are just doing your job(and looking cute while your doing it) AND you've made it clear that you're no longer interested in your ex(even though you might still be)! GOOD LUCK!

well dont only blame her its both there faults but in her defense she might not have known u 2 were together try 2 be a civilized as possible becuase you work to together

move on.

If you aren't aggressive toward her, don't hurt or slander her, you're doing great.

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