What the hell do I do about my boyfriend?!?!?

Ok so here's what happened. I've been going out with my bf for a while now and lately i haven't been able to get on my webcam to "see" him. Now us being crazy hormone drivin teens we find stuff to do on that webcam. lol Ok but anyways we were texting instead because i couldnt call him either (im grounded) We were both "in the mood" and i've always been kinda forward when it comes to my horniness like i'm crazy horny for a girl and he jokes with me sometimes saying that i have this alter ego and bla bla etc. so anyways it didn't take long and i got him in the mood like me. However, i've supposedly been hornier than usual and so has he and he texted me and i know he didn't mean it now but it startled me he said that maybe we shouldn't be going out. I asked him why and he said since we both havent had sex that i might do something and he isn't very level headed. I reassured him that i would NOT have sex for a while longer and that he would ALWAYS be wearing a condom, since he's not

mr. level headed. I told him thanks alot for killing my high and i said some other things that indicated that i was kinda ticked off. He told me he was sorry but if it makes me feel better he was "going at it". That didn't help and I told him thanks for making it so i can finally go to sleep. He didn't respond and the next day (today) I stayed home because im not feeling good. He never texted accept for to say good morning to me in the morning. Usually when i'm sick he texts at lunch. Should i have had reason to get kinda ticked when he said something like that. Wouldn't you? I want adult answers since i'm nearly 18 i don't want people saying ewww i really need some good answers

yes your bound to be peeeeed off i would too especially after that comment. dont know what he is playing at but i would definetly ask him!!! does he want to be your bf or not.

hmm well maybe he sees sex as a big deal and is waiting for a committed relationship, and no offence to you or anything but you talking about how you want to have sex with someone else (i.e the girl) might have made him doubt your committment to him or maybe he feels as if your relationship is based solely on sexual stuff and wants a bit of affection too..after all meaningless sex isn;t too hard to find..so maybe he's looking for a more meaningful relationship..i would try and play down the sexual side of your relationship for a while and get to know him better on a platonic level too, after all you're gonna prob have sex eventually anyway