Am I right to be upset?

My partner and I decided to meet in the city so we can go and have nice dinner. I dressed up and went to catch a bus. We agreed to meet in one place, but 5 minutes before the agreed time he sent me a message saying he鈥檚 in another place. I rushed to that place, waited, and then I receive a call that he鈥檚 in supermarket. He bought the whole basket of food, and was going to carry that huge bag to a restaurant. When I said I didn鈥檛 like that idea he psyched out and said he was going home. That was it, I broke into tears and ran away. I was shaking for the next 3 hours wondering the streets, confused and upset. I was planning to go to the bbq, which was scheduled a month ago, I was looking forward to catching up with my friends. Obviously we didn鈥檛 go. It is now 3rd day since the incident, we haven鈥檛 talked, we sleep in different rooms, and I am yet to receive an apology.
Am I right to be upset? Does he need to apologise??

Sounds like your partner is a completely insensative jerk.

Find someone else.

I think you both are being immature.

Him having a bag of groceries with you at the restaurant would not have ruined the dinner - it was thoughtful of him to take care of the groceries in the first place so you shouldn't have gotten upset about it - then he over reacted to you getting upset about it.

then you over reacted again by wandering around the streets instead of just going home.

now it is jsut plain rediculous that the two of you have let an argument over a bag of groceries go for three days, ruining other plans. At this point the two of you need to mutally apologize and drop it - BOTH of you were wrong.

I suggest you get into marriage counseling - it is pretty apparent the two of you have some huge issues to work on when it comes to stubborness and communication.

He's an idiot, go and find someone you actually deserve rather than this bumhola