Playing Hard to Get? - men only,please!?

How Much of playing hard to get can you guys take before you give up...? if a woman is playing that she's interested in you, and then all of a sudden changes her game up. Then she plays hard to get by pretending that she's busy, and that she has other things going on (alot more phone calls & txt messages coming in etc.) ... would you even bother to go forward by asking her out again?

It's dangerous and can create obsessions... men use similar push/pull ebb/flow techniques to cause a woman to become nearly addicted to them. It can be highly effective but only when you allow the man/woman to qualify and gradually respond to his demonstrations of value... if you continue to be hard to get most will move on to an easier person, too little and they will 'conquer' and lose all respect and interest. The trick is moderation that can only be found by increasing social intuition. You do this through practice and increasing social interaction example get a job as a bartender or wait staff you will be around a significantly higher number of people in various social moods and settings allowing you to calibrate yourself to body language and other forms of non verbal communication. Also if you do not allow them to qualify they won't feel as if they earned your attentions this is key in all attraction situations regardless of techniques or methods used. It will keep them from regretting their decisions to become close or intimate with you. Basically you have to play hard to get for only a brief time then once interest is sparked allow the guy/girl to qualify reward good do not reward bad, do not be afraid to disagree and show you are unique and have your own opinions, after qualification maintain a push pull dynamic to increase the feeling of connection and to intensify the level of the interaction. Example of qualification is to express increased interest when he says something about an ability to cook decreased when he admits he can't dance and then increased again when he say something unique or funny eventually say something along the lines of 'you are really turning out to be more than I expected' or 'you're kinda starting to grow on me' etc to aurally provide confirmation of qualification.

Every guy is different, but truthfully, if you really like a guy, just be straight forward. Guys don't like playing these mind games, especially nice guys. The only guys that like playing these games are players, and they usually out play the woman. If you keep stringin the guy along he might just go ask some one else out then you will have lost your chance.

ok guys hate that crap I know I do so if I feel like someone is playing any kind of games with me that's it I don't have anything to do with them anymore even if I was really into them. just be up front and honest it won't kill you lol