Guys and commitment?

I've been "casually" seeing a guy for the past 8 months whose a little younger than me & without responsibilities (I have a child). At the start, he was very laid back about us (?) I tried moving things forward but he kept giving me mixed signals so I called it off for a little while. He's the sort of guy who comes over, drops his bundle and then leaves but as he grew more comfortable, we were spending more and more time together. Now we're back together and lately, he's been hinting at having threesomes wth my gf's. So I thought "I can play this game" and asked if he wouldn't mind sharing his friends (male friends that is). I was shocked when he volunteered them so long as he could go first? What to do?

run he sounds like a kid and you already have one so why take on another?if you stay you are in for a world of heartache and confusion and not to mentioned being used for his weird sexual desires, good luck

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Guys and commitment those are two words that don't mix well. Women feel inadequate when being asked for a 3 way or orgy. And the man maybe or maybe not. This is a get it out of his system thing you have to help him get this done. Without you there is no chance. Maybe you and him will like it. Maybe not. maybe one of you will and one not. There are a lot of happily married couples who swing with mixed sex couples. He needs to find out where he stands. And so should you if you haven't tried this before. This is a got to do it once at least thing.

He called your bluff, you can back out if you want... I wouldn't if I were you. Anyway, it depends entirely on what YOU want.

Single mothers have too much baggage, most men won't commit to them and rightly so, the overwhelming majority of single mothers are simply a pain, whether it's just a casual friends with benefits thing or a full blown relationship.