Should I should I not ?HELP?

we been together for 6 yrs 2 kids ,,I am growing not to like him , he is a crabby grouch .the prob is he likes to drink a bit to much and do other things he know is not right ,for sometime I thought he was even unfaithful . My gf are always calling me to come and hangout with them the problem is is that i am very attractive and i know there are other men that are trying too talk too me and i am so afraid i am going to be so tempted.with my man not showing me much love and his communication is crap ..its been 4 days already ...I am looking forward to just giving up and trying someone else ...any advice ..?I am lonely and lost ......like a desperate housewife

Go out and have your life! As long as you do what is right (don't cheat on your husband) you are doing nothing that you should feel guilty about.

I was liek this with my kids' father. We were together for five years and he was a grouch who liked to drink aand smoke marijuana both of which I don't do. It just got little old at that point and although I wanted to work it out for the kids, kids will NOT change a bad situation and I just had to let it go because eventually things got worse than they were .Take it from me, if he doesn't shape up, ship his behind out!

The fact thats its been 6 years and u dont have any communication with your husband about this situation means that the relationship is pretty much done with.If you really want to save it I would suggest talking to your husband about everything your feeling and if he doesn't change or you both can't have some mutual agreement about his drinking then you should start thinking about yours and your kids future first and short term goals as to what you want and do them.