Will i be notified?

last year, my cousin called me to notify me that he was coming to new york to take a course for his job at harvard university for two weeks..i met him towards the end of his visit and had three days to spend with him..before he left, he started persuading and kept asking me to visit india in december..then he called me in november when my sister went for work and said he was looking forward to seeing me as well then i told him i was busy then he said omg! everyone is busy..he asked my mom when i can come and she said during my holidays.then she told him i have holidays during the months of june and july..if my cousin had to come to new york again this year and wanted to meet me, do u think he will call me and let me know..i truly believe that he is not calling and not going because it is my turn to visit india since my last trip was in december 2003..what do u think..please send me ur honest opinion..do u think my cousin misses me..

i'm afraid of writing to him in march for holi because he'll ask again when i'm coming to india..to tell you the truth, my mom wants to go to europe with her friend in july and wants me in san francisco with my dad..i feel all i ever do during my vacation is visit my dad..all of my friends are busy spending time with their families..they dont get time to hang out with their friends much..what can i do..i'm so sad..all of my friends are going on vacation and i'm stuck staying in the usa..all i ever do is study study study...:((((

I think Ur cousins could has a crush on u..... or at least u think he does.. I am not sure.. U have written about him so many times, ARE U SCARED OF HIM???? did he say or do something in appropriately..???
OR
perhaps u have a crush on him????

if either is the case.... AVOID HIM..

AND why can't u go visit some of Ur other relatives while Ur mom is gone???????////
go have some fun... and forget the studying for a while!!!!!
sorry u are so sad..
is there anything else going on in Ur life? find something to bring u happiness..
do u have a bf??? get out and meet people
take care

Just tell the cousin that you have no intention of visiting India at the present time, but you will let him know when you plan to. Maybe part of the reason he keeps asking is that you are leading him to think you plan to by not telling him no. I don't really understand the issue here - why is your cousin so interested in getting you over there?

Your cousin will call....Explain to your cousin that it is not your fault...which I am sure your cousin knows.

Talk to your dad and mom and let them know you would like a break and be allowed to go to India. They might agree because you seem to be a very good student and that would be a nice reward for all your hard work.