Guys help!!...Handjob on first night did I blow it??

Im turning into a nervous wreck. I met this guy last year & at first he was in hot pursuit but the timing never worked out. Fast forward now we just had our first night together. the whole night he was sweet to me and he kissed and touched me in such an intimate way. there was no sex but it did get a little heated so I gave him a handjob. I KNOW he really enjoyed it he kept telling me I was the best. I never took off my clothes and he never touched down there. my dilemma is its one day short of a week and he hasn't called. The last thing he did was kiss me on the cheek and said he would call me "later." I feel im getting mixed signals and im scared b\c I actually like this guy and that doesn't happen often. so why hasn't he called is he just not that into me???

Believe me, you didn't blow it. Any guy would appreciate the extra attention (just like women appreciate attention) ...and the fact he enjoyed it was a plus. But please, don't play coy. ... You got enjoyment out of what you did to him as well ... Right? ... Otherwise; you wouldn't have done it.
And let me ask ... when you gave him the hand-job ... Who pulled it out of his pants? Did he unzip himself and pull it out? ... or did you unzip him and pull it out?
I hate it when women think that doing something sexual to us is a favor. It simple isn't. It's mutual! You got something out of the experience as well.
And as far as doing sexual things on the first date ... Why wait?? ... and if you do wait, what would you be waiting for?
You know within the first hour of a date if you like a guy enough to have sex with him ... Right? So, why wait?
If you are waiting for him to spend money on you before you do anything sexual it makes you look even worse. What do they call women that trade sex (or sexual favors) for money?
And even if he's not handing you a few 20's ... he's still spending money on you for your benefit. What's the difference?
If you enjoy being with him, and want to be with him ... then you should be with him. There's never a guarantee that things will work out.
Use your best judgment, enjoy your experiences and do not feel guilty if things don't work out exactly as you would like.

uh, he got what he wanted or he realizes yur a skank who's desperate for some male attention. Pick one.

Watch your wording there... I'm sure you're gonna get more than one "no you didn't blow it, it was a handjob!". And guys like sex... so you really can't go wrong with it. And if he was up to it that means that you probably weren't moving too fast, or he would've stopped you.

lol you didnt blow it you handjobed it haha

Personally, I think that you could have compose yourself alittle more instead of doing that...If I was guy and you did that to me on the first date I would think that you do that to every single guy gives you some foreplay...Second, you of never show off your sexual talents with a guy on the first date..you are suppose to make them wait at least a month or two or maybe six months if thats the case...