How can i move on...please help anyone?

after my ex told me to move on 3 days i ago, it finally hit me today that its the end. We have broken up a few times and each time she runs back to me, but today she didnt' even answer my call. Her father passed away 2 months ago and it has altered her lifestyle and decisions. Now all of a sudden she wants to move forward and end it. Im hurt by this, I've been with her through thick and thin, always supported her, gave her money to spend all the time. Now she wants to end it. It is her bday this thursday and i don't even get to do anything with her. I was there when her father passed away and took her shelter and comforted her. now its blah. So hard to swallow.

Anyone going through this?

How does one move on?

Auh thats sad I have and kinda still am going threw this it is very sad thats sweet of u to do that with her well just Hang out with ur friends, Listen to happy dance songs do something u have never done before most likely before u know it u will be over her hope this helps!!!!

get some strange

Occupy yourself with other things that interest you. Life goals. Hobbies. Friends. A good book.

i dont know how you feel but, try giving her some space. im sure (god forbid) if i was in that situation id probably break up with my boyfriend too just so i wouldnt have extra things to worry about. show her you reallllly love her maybe try sending flowers to her? good luck !

try to have a great day dont think about the fact that shes gone ,try to live every day like she never moves...................

I went through this.I know it sounds cliche, but get a hobby listen to happy music ,and be happy.

I'm sorry for your loss. but i have only two words for you: CLEAN BREAK. That's the only way to get over her and move on. Cease all contact with her. She wants to end the relationship. As crappy as that is, it is what it is. ou have no choice but to grieve the loss, bury it, heal, and love again. Good luck! Been there dude.

man... im reall srry 2 hear that.. n i kno itz gna take a while 4 dat wound to heal.. something like that has happened 2 me 2...i got through my spending time with my friendz n also jus being alone and clearing my head n though about all the good stuff.. i met other gurls n tlked 2 them.... n i tried 2 get bac wit my ex and prove to her that i loved her beyond compare n could alwayz be there 4 her

You should just move on, to better things finish what you have not, life is full of obstacles but learn to get over them

Try to understand. at this point of her life, its quite possible that she would be making decisions that are not logical since she is on a grief stage...

believe me, when a girl do that, it only means she needed you more...:)

Try not to think about her, i know it's hard but try to make yourself busy in allways possible go out,read,and believe sooner or later you'll forget and realize that life goes on and never stops...
Good luck

wow anyways um MOVE ON literally she likes someone or doe-sent want anything wit u so leave her alone she will come back to u when she realizes that u were a nice guy ( if u are) and hope she wants u back but remember u ain't a toy she is treating u like a dog! so forget about her u will find someone else!

she may need some space she is going through something and when she comes back to her senses she may realize what she's done wrong and how good of a man you are just remind her of how much you two have been through and let her know she'll always have you to come to when she needs someone to talk to

Just recently my husband left me about a month and half ago and wants to be single again. I was hurt at first but if someone wants to leave the relationship for whatever reason I don't think that the ones that they leave behind needs to track them down. Believe you get over it after it happens several times in the relationship. Then you just feel like ok whatever move on some way some how just do it for yourself. Health wise it makes sense. I wish you well God Bless

first of all, you shouldn't be sad. the girl that dumped you should be. she should be miserable knowing that ur not in her life. Second, Ive been used so u know how it is. and third, give her space, she'll come to you when she is ready. if not ur better off with out her. she might of done this because u either been too pushy, or to mushy. or someone told her somethin about u to her. it might b gossip. just talk to her and ask wats up or get someone to do it for u. or just let it b.

Be your own best friend. Do things that you enjoy doing or take a class learning something new that you've always wanted to learn. Spend more time with people who genuinely love you like family and friends. It helped me, I hope this helps you buddy. Good luck!

Yes I went through this only recently, I'm sorry you're going through it because it's not pleasant at all!

Firstly, don't call her, email her or anything like that. Not having any contact with your ex for a while will make you heal a lot faster.

Do whatever you can to work through your feelings and get them out of your system. If she offers friendship, don't accept it, make her miss you and give her a dose of what life is really like without you. I wouldn't try to be her friend until you've had some time alone.

One can only move on when they have worked through their feelings and time has done some healing. The only problem with time is that it takes time. I know this is hard to believe but you will feel better and you will be able to move on, in your own time.

i know its going to be hard at first but you judt have to move on i bet that in a month or so youll be fine.

I know its tough, just brush yourself off and bounce. Its not the end of the world. You'll probably run into this situation many times. Hopefully this is your first taste so you'll know what to expect next time this comes around.

right now it feels so bad, all you want to do is cry, all you can do is sit around and remember all the 'good' times,
everything makes you think of her, and smells of her. infact your mind is just consumed with thoughts and feelings of her.

you said her dad passed yeah? well you were there for her and seen how hard it was for her. how she cried and grieved.
well you now are going to have to do the same sort of thing. and i garentee things will feel better this time tommorrow, and a bit the next day and so on.
but its going to be tough babe, i wont lie. but you have to face the reality, and that is, she does not want to be with you.
she has moved on with her life.
no matter, what you think, how you feel, how many times you call and she ignores, it will not change anything.

You HAVE to move on for the sake of your health, trust me. this happened to me, and it tore me up inside, every one ded things like 'plenty more fish' etc and i wanted to just cry. but i too had to face facts. or it takes over your life the shouldhas, couldas.

to move on, don't call, don't text, basically do not contact her. i mean it! chuck your phone if you have too.
get rid of any of her belongings you have, even the thing that smells of her you like.

and take each day, one by one. thats all you can do. it may feel like the end of the worl now but its not.
i promise you you Will get over this it just takes time.

If a person can actually pick and move on with their life, without making sure they packed you in the luggage, then you don't need that kind of person in your life. It does not make losing that person any easier, but it can help lessen the pain. The only way to move on is to actually move on. Live your life like you did before she was in it or make a new life for yourself. Pick up a hobby that you always wanted to try but never had enough time too or hang out with your friends and family more. You cannot dwell in the past if you ever expect to have a future. Try going out with other people, not necessarily a date, but have fun, don't limit yourself. Also, don't keep thinking that they are coming back to the point where you miss out on fun events and the happenings of life. For example, if you find a cute girl and you would like to spend time with her, don't feel guilty about doing so, hang out with her, because if your ex loved you she would never have let you go. If she ever does come back and tries to give you guilt for living your life, well I would never even let her back in period. Move on with your life, have fun, and do not look back.

I have a book I reccomend. its kind of a girly book but its good because like the guy left the girl...


New Moon by Stephenie Meyer


he still loves her, but doesn't want to hurt anyone.

thats some bullshyt she ****** up man God saw your kindness and he will help you yes i had a simular incodent but dude be strong talk to her about this and figure out her reasons for doing so