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Does he just want sex from me?


I liked this guy, we'll call him Jacques, for almost a year. We moved in together (completely platonic friends, there were also five other people living with us! May I also say we're pretty much best buds). I stopped liking him because he found out and that might have been awkward. We sometimes slept/sleep in each others beds because we like to have someone there to cuddle with I guess. A month and a half ago, on a drunk night(they usually are), he started hitting on me. We kissed and not a whole lot more happened. This was a mistake, for both of us. We talked about it and said that it shouldn't happen again, he told me he didn't like me...fast forward to my birthday (March 4th). I slept at his place and I honestly just wanted to sleep. I thought he was asleep, but I guess not because the next thing I know he's trying to feel me up and tries kissing me, but misses TWICE! I sort of resist and about a half hour later I try kissing him, but I get no response. Help! I am confused..

Ever heard of sexual tension? It sounds like you either need to hook up or stay away from each other. It seems like he just wants you for sex too see if it is worth making a relationship out of it. The problem is that he has it all backwards. If you want to be more than friends talk to him about it. Don't give in or you both could end up getting hurt and ruining your friendship.

I would say it sounds like he just wants sex except for the fact that you two have known each other for so long. I think you need to sit him down and ask. Tell him that you're not comfortable with a no-strings attached relationship. Good luck!

he alone wants to enjoy u without ur knowledge only for sex not with love he is trying to get trained from u to be with some other keep distanced,,......................

He wants SEX! he is jus using u 4 when he is lonely or drunk! Sorry but its the truth

well . . . I think maybe you should try to take it to another level. . . just make sure to be honest with each other. . . you kissing wasn't a mistake. . . there was obviously some sort of connection. Honesty. . . tell him that. BUT . . . if you desire a monogamous relationship and he doesn't. . . then just stay friends let him know that it could go further but won't unless it's agreed upon how it will be. I'm sure that with your friendship a friends with benefits might work out . . . or you could become a couple . . . or maybe just stay friends. . . talk about it and make a move if you still feel inclined to do so.
good luck.

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