What does this guy want from me?

I liked this guy, we'll call him Jacques, for almost a year. We moved in together (completely platonic friends, there were also five other people living with us! May I also say we're pretty much best buds). I stopped liking him because he found out and that might have been awkward. We sometimes slept/sleep in each others beds because we like to have someone there to cuddle with I guess. A month and a half ago, on a drunk night(they usually are), he started hitting on me. We kissed and not a whole lot more happened. This was a mistake, for both of us. We talked about it and said that it shouldn't happen again, he told me he didn't like me...fast forward to my birthday (March 4th). I slept at his place and I honestly just wanted to sleep. I thought he was asleep, but I guess not because the next thing I know he's trying to feel me up and tries kissing me, but misses TWICE! I sort of resist and about a half hour later I try kissing him, but I get no response. Help! I am confused..

You're confused????? Try being him! Why are you sending him mixed messages? Of course you got no response...you sloughed him off so what did you expect? Why don't you sit down with yourself and ask what it is YOU want from him?

so am i...

Jessica, it really can be a problem when two people who are not very smart get together. I think it would be better for you, this guy and the future of the human race if you stay out of each other's beds.

you guys nned to do some one talking ... i sense attraction ... but u guys totally need to talk

Just make it clap
Just make it clap

then he will go away

he is probably just as confused as you! Just talk to him, if he is truly your friend, everything should be fine!

wow, u need to becareful cuz u might get raped.
and he doesn't like you, he just wants someone to touch. Thats how guys are...

This guy is just nuts! No offense since he's your best bud and all! But seriously he needs to figure out what he wants!

Does he want sex? Does he want a relationship?

Honestly I'd ask him straight out what he wants.

But you are also being like this to him! One moment you like him and one moment you don't! One moment you don't let him kiss you then you want to kiss him?

What do you want from him?

Do you want sex? Do you want a relationship?

The same questions can apply! So think long and hard! Get some communication going between you two and figure things out!
Good luck!

First of all, get your @$$ out of his bed and stay out of there. If you didn't like the guy, why the heck are you acting like a harlot and sleeping in his bed and putting yourself in that situation in the first place?

Second, he is playing you. He says he doesn't like you but feels you up and all that other crap. Get a clue and keep your butt out of his bed, his room, and out of his way and be more respectable of your own self. If I were you, the place you're in is a wierd set up. Get out of there and either get your own place or find some other friends that won't do this stupid crap that all of you in your current household are doing right now.

we can all have a threesome, that cures all problems.