Boyfriend had me arrested?

I was dating a guy for almost a year.About 2 months ago we got into an arguement and I slapped him.He got pissed and broke up with me.I went home and was up all night upset.The next morning I went to his house and rung the doorbell and as soon as he answered I kicked him in the balls as hard as I could then cursed him out.Fast forward to a month later and I was pulled over for speeding.The cop took my license and came back and arrested me,saying I had a warrant out.Come to find out that my ex filed a complaint with me for assault.He had something called testicle torsion and needed surgery.Now I have to deal with these charges (2nd degree assault) abd it really makes me mad.I think my ex is being a big baby for pressing charges.What do all of you think?

I know you were upset at the time you slapped and kicked him. And he may be acting like a baby, as most men would just chaulk it up as an upset ex and move one, but he has every right within the limits of the law. Reverse the situation, if you did something wrong and after the two of you broke up, he slapped you and/or kicked you, wouldn't you press charges?

Even if he drops the charges, depending on what state you are in, the charges can always get picked up by the District Attorney. That is what happened to one of my friends a couple of years ago. Her husband and her separated and when she came over later to get her stuff there was an argument. He proceed to follow her out and down the street in the car continuing to yell and scream at her. She then punched him just once after he got out of the car, but he ended up calling the police. He decided NOT to press charges, but the District Attorney picked it up and now she has the charges on her record. She even had to attend anger management class along with her fines.

Not meaning to scare you, my best advice, is get some legal advice or an attorney ASAP! They will be the best at helping you out or assisting you with your next plan of action. This is not going to be an easy road, but the important part is that you address the issue head on and learn a valuable lesson for the future.

Best of luck to you, and God Bless!!!!

wow hes messed up hun.......i have no idea how you went out with him in that first place..

Well maybe you should'nt of kicked him there.

He Should Have Charged You With Assualt Break up or Not You Assualted Him not Once But Twice

Good for him for charging you

You Did Assualt him He had Every Right to Press Charges

You have No Right to Assault him or anyone

Suck it up

Why did you go to his house and kick him? i can see if he came to your house and started **** with you. And if you really hurt him down there i think he had a right to do that to you.

give birth to a kid if you want a relative comparison to the pain you caused him.

If a girl kicked me in the balls id punch her in the ovaries and have her arrested as well.

never hit anyone although I think he is a wimp for what he did

Nice Going, that poor boy is scarred for life. everybody makes mistakes but try not to make mistakes that BIG! Good luck gettin through...

I think that he's not the only one being a big baby. You slapped him. You took the time and effort to go and kick him in the balls. And you did physical damage. Are you an adult or a child? You made the decision to do something stupid and immature, you deal with the consequences. It's pretty clear you have anger issues, and should probably seek some sort of therapy in how to deal with it. Either that, or just grow up and stop acting like a bratty, spoiled little girl. Make a choice, live with the consequences. Welcome to the world of adults.

I think he was right for pressing charges against you because you did physically assault him...twice. Hope you learn a lesson from this.

Have you ever been kicked it the taters If that was possible you would know why he complained to the cops. you could have prevented him from having a family, if this did happen he could sue you, I never hit women but if a woman did to me what you did to him, I would have retaliated in kind, such as rearrange your nose.

oh yeah big baby!!!! for sure. he needs to man up.

honestly, i have to say... i do not think under any circumstances should you kick a man in his balls. really... you can cause severe and permanent damage. I've slapped guys before and even punched a guy in the face... but I've come to realize, violence causes nothing but pain to EVERYONE. the only time you should ever do anything "naughty" to that area is when you're bein intimate. (if they like that sort of thing-ha) but anyway... he definitely was in the right in charging you with assault. step into his shoes... you don't think, that if he'd hit you and you had to get surgery... or if he even hit you at all that you'd press charges? he's not a wuss at all. it actually takes a MAN to call the police and file charges... especially if he loved you still. it's very hard to do something like that to someone you love. trust me, i had to call the police on one of my ex b/f's for breaking my ribs and giving me 2 black eyes. think of all the battered women in the country and how "bad" people feel for them... what about men who get abused? they're people too and deserve the same amount of sympathy. you may not agree with me... but I bet you'll think twice before you ever put your hands on anyone else.

no you dont relly have any right to be mad at him. he didnt hit you and you kicked him in a mans most sesitive area?...he did the right thing but you could call him or visit him out of the blue and apologize and let him know that he charges are causing you unwanted stress and ask him to drop them>>>goodluck