My friend is missing should I be worried or upset?

I have this friend and we are pretty tight, or so I thought. We talked like everyday, confided in each other, she even signed up for the same classes as me so we can have the same schedule. Sometimes when she's stressed she says she wants to just disappear from everyone and I'll joke and say the same thing. So first thing I noticed she wasnt coming to class. So i txt her and her mom called me back. Her mom told me that my friend had her calls forwarded over to her phone so I was like well tell her I called and she said okay. So i waited a week and txt her again, no response. Then I called her cell and its shut off. Then I called her house, phone is shut off. Its been over a month now and I dont know where she is. We dont have mutual friends, she has no email I dont know where her family lives so I dont know what to do. I was gonna go to her apartment but I was afraid if she seen me she would think Im a stalker. I dont know whether to be worried or be mad at her for doing this. Help?

I said the stalker thing for a reason. This girl is the type of person who would really think that if she seen me. Its hard to explain you would just have to know her. I didnt just say that for nothing.

sounds like she isn't really gonna be your new bff. She has things she needs to deal with, so I'd probably just let her be. I would have said to go see if you can help, but by what you say she sounds a bit over-dramatic if she would think you're a stalker. You're a kind person, it's just too bad she's so self-absorbed. Also, she may just not want to be friends with you.

whoa...
I'd start praying... but it seems like it may be late to actually *do* anything now.
Go to her apartment, since you seem truly concerned.
I wouldn't be mad... surely there are reasons that you could never know.

If you have her address I would write her a letter, that shouldn't be seen as being too intrusive.
Other than that you will have to wait for her to contact you.

wow, first of I'm sorry about that. now, if you haven't already i would start praying if you pray. Don't be afraid to do go her apartment, you're just a worried friend. I'm sure she wouldn't think you're a stalker. Try those, i hope it all gets better...

I think it's okay to swing by her apartment to make sure she's ok. This is not a stalker-type of situation. You just want to see if she's ok. If she's there just say you were in the area and want to grab lunch or something.

I hope she's okay. I mean, maybe she's just had a lot going on lately.

I'd be both worried and upset

Apparently her mother is not worried. Obviously, she doesn't want to be in contact with you or anybody. Maybe she's embarrassed about something (PG??). Your phone records could tell you where your call went (if you feel the need to ask the police for help). Good luck.

If she is truly your friend then she would find it possibly annoying (but eventually OK) if dropped by to see her.

It may be that she is having financial problems (hence her cell and land line being cut off)... if this is true you might want to drop by to see if she has burrowed further into depression- you coming by might be what she needs.

Be worried. It is certainly ok to go to her house and check on her. Once you see her, just tell her that you were concerned and tell her how she can get ahold of you if she needs too. Then back off if you feel that you are intruding. If you can't find her, it would be ok to go to the police.

I was gonna go to her apartment but I was afraid if she seen me she would think Im a stalker

Friends don't think friends are stalkers.

Stop by her home and see what's up...

i think the fact that youre questioning whether or not you should worried or upset in the first place would suggest you arent really that good of friends with her....lolololol jkjkjkjjk i kno u are or you wouldnt be posting!!! if you want to find her you should talk to one of her friends about it! maybe you should join some other activities to get over your pseudo-worry, such as pagents!

Talk to the school administration. They are the only people that you and your friend have in common.
Place a report, and they will follow up. If your friend has pulled away, they might not tell you what's going on - but for sure the first thing they'll do is talk to police & etc. You talking to the administration might not cause your friend to contact you, but it will cause a search. And if your friend is dangerously missing, you'll find out thru the news.

call the local police and see if she has been reported missing and let them handle it thats why we pay taxes