Ex-Boyfriends Relationships, is it O.K.?

I have been dating my girlfriend for about 8 months and we get along very
well. We both love each other and talk about moving in together. I am
experiencing some problems with my girlfriend and her friendships with her
ex boyfriends. She has had three relationships in the last four years with
boyfriends that have all lived with her at some point. She has broken up with
them but continues to talk to them/text and in one case sees an ex bf on a
weekly basis. Two of these ex bf's she has had relationships with on and off
several times in the last four years.

My girlfriend says that they are just friends and I am trying to be comfortable
with that but here is what is happening and I would like some feedback on if
this is acceptable?
Her one ex bf talks to her sometimes 3-4 times a day. He lives within walking
distance to her house and they both have dogs and take them for walks
together one to three times a week. In the summer they go to a couple of dog
parks which can take up to two hours to go and come back. He still has a key
to her house and she calls on him to let her dogs out often while she is at
work. When they were dating last, she was at one point pregnant with his
baby but lost it due to a misscarriage.
My girlfriend maintains that they are just friends but the frequency of their
communication and getting together is starting to weigh heavy on my
thoughts.
I have expressed to her that this bothers me from time to time. One time she
said she called him up and told him that they need to cut back their
interaction but they seem to fall back into a comfort zone with calling each
other several times a day.
My girfriend has another ex bf that sometimes calls at 6:00 A.M. She says
that is when they can talk before he goes to work.
I am looking forward to your thoughts?

no its not okay, and she has problems with letting go..
perhaps this was a trait that she developed very early in life with not being able to move on too well and loose people?

but trust me, its not okay
she most definitly still feels something for the exbf that
has a key to her house
calls
walks dogs with
almost had a baby with
...
who is she really dating anyway? you or him?

yea sure. people define cheating as only physical, but to me if my boyfriend was like that i would probably feel just as bad as if he had done something sexual with her.
i cant imagine how that must hurt you, for me it definitly would.

IF THEY WERE ONLy friends then why dont the three of yo hangout , or why doesnt your girlfriend ask you
..i know you wouldnt want to be having casual converstaions with that guy who had sex with your girl
if i were you thats what i would be thinking about as we talked and i would be uncomfortable, but when she is with him one on one rather than a group all the time, theres a problem

Bottom line, personally speaking, if I was aware or just found out about a significant other still in contact with their exes, I would NOT stand for it. That is supposed to be a closed chapter in one's life. I understand that some people may have broken up with eachother because they're better off as friends and have only platonic feelings, but if she's still talking to these dudes as if they did when together, then that's a giant red flag. You should either tell her to completely cut off communication or walk out.

you are experiencing the same problem that my BF had with me and talkin to my ex I mean your GF is wayyy to close to that guy seriously. I only just spoke to my ex and text me sometimes tellin me he still loves me and my BF didn't agree so he told me how he felt and I called the guy up and told him to end it cause my man wasn't happy with it of course he had a hard time understanding me and he's still texting me but I ignore him. Well with ur GF tell her that this closeness she has with er ex isn't working for you ask her who is more ipmportant her relationship with you or her ex hopefully she'll get it just like I did if she loves you really. Good luck with that.

I know what you mean. My girl is real good friends with another guy and it sometimes annoys me. I think it really depends on how much you trust her. It sounds like their pretty close, I personally wouldn't like it, but I'm not you. Maybe you could talk to her about it if you haven't already, but be careful. Hopefully that helps some.

Option 1; - She must be a very very kind person, so that she can keep relations with all of her ex-boyfriends. But if she's really kind, she'll be aware of your feelings. Why don't you try, sometime, talking to her frankly about this once again?

Option 2: - She didn't really love any of her ex-friends. Maybe they had been good friends before turning into love. But if it's really so, should you consider more carefully about your relation?