Do men really lost interest if women come a little too forward?

i've always took a pride in getting the guy to come to me - playing hard to get, being aloof, etc. - and that's exactly what i want to continue to do with this guy i'm dating now. he's very well established, educated, has a big ego, lots of girlfriends, etc. he hasn't dated anyone longer than a few months over the last few years and so far we've been dating a year now. he says that he likes me because i'm not needy, i'm a challenge, and i'm smart/ambitious, etc. and i know for a fact that that's the type of women he's attracted to. he hates when women call him often or come a ltitle too forward or start becoming clingy.
but now i'm starting to wonder if i shouldstart showing a little bit of interest, becoming more active in arranging dates, etc. i really want to secure a relationship with this guy and he's made some progress - very very slowly - over the last few months, but so far, no definitive words, no promises. should i continue on with my way or should i tell him straightforward

welcome to the game for you have come to another stage . . .lol.

take it as it comes and time to guage him and yourself in him? sometime or the other, you 2 have to come with terms and stop playing the "dating game" and have some serious relationships as in emotions.


but becareful here, the "thrill" of having the attention of each annother will fade and be taken granted for. there's always the challenge of it and part of the process?

good luck.

Well i dont, and sometimes it's SEXY

If both of you are dating for so long, it's ok that you can make some moves. It should be ok but a litle bit at a time. If he started to lose interest in you just because you make such move, I don't think he's a good person for you in future. He might not be the one who can really committed in relationship. Just be careful. The risk is always there if he doesn't change ...