I want to make things right and desperately need advice?

Long story short: My ex broke my heart. We then had a friends with benefits arrangement but that didnt work out cos he met someone and threw it in my face. Fast forward a few months, he approached me the restart the fu*k buddies arrangement and i agreed. Then he ditched me again for the same girl grrr. Then she ditched him for HER ex. When he told me i thought he was joking, so i laughed my head off and was really sarcastic. He always seemed so robust and cold so i would never dream that he'd actually had his heart broken. But then when he blocked and deleted me off msn, i realized what he was saying was true and now i feel horribly guilty. Im think of calling him up tomorrow, take him for coffee and seriously just apologize and be there for him as a friend what do you think i should say when i call him?

oh if this sounds like a strange way for ex's to act, we've known eachother since we were nine (went to primary school and high school together) and we're now in 2nd year university. So we've known eachother like forever

Wow! You can really be cold!

But, he sounds really immature and cold too. Maybe you two are made for each other?

Here is some free advice, that is worth exactly what you paid for it. This is going to take me a while to type up, but here goes. I have daughters your age, so hopefully this will help.

I say add some heat and steam to your relationship with him.

He feels really low and worthless. He is seriously hurt. This is how you can not only fix him, but make it so he will not want to wonder off again. Also, make it so he really thinks twice, thrree times... 4 or 5 times at looking at someone else besides you next time.

I say meet him when you both have at least a day or two off.
Do whatever it takes to get him to come over, but get him over.

Rent the movie Lieberstraum. Fast forward it to the part where the man in on the train. When he comes in, start the movie. Let him start the conversations. Just act like his little kitty. Rub up to him like a kitty that wants to be pet. Let him start things and benefit the heck out of him for a day or two.

I mean, have pizza and chinese food delivered, but do not go out for nothing. Let him know the reason he is a man. Make him grateful to God for the reason that he is a man and that you are a woman. Snuggle up to him like a kitty that wants to be pet. Feline play. Purr and softly and slowly meow in his ear.

Then, afterwards, act as if it was no big deal. Do not call him. Make yourself too busy to talk to him too. Say you will have to get back to him if you are forced. Do not call him back or talk to him for at least 5 days.

Then, make arrangements to do the same thing to him, but only for an over-nighter. Make him want to pray to God for him being a man that met you. Snuggle up to him like a kitty that wants to be pet. Purr and softly and slowly meow in his ear.

If you have to leave in the morning, leave, but get away from him. Act like it is no big deal. Do not talk to him or call him for another 5 days. Same deal as above.

I think you know how to handle it from there. E-mail me if you need help.

Good luck.