Why would you call me a dead beat dad when you do not know why i am behind on my child support?

I`m behind on my support because my place of employment went out of business I got another job then it moved out of the state I live in and by this time alot of jobs moved over seas or went out of business.Then it was dog eat dog to find employment.If i would have had my children then i could have seeked help with job and family services.

Because the majority of women don't care WHY you are behind. Your being behind hinders them from getting their hair done, their nails done, it might keep them from getting that new dress for themselves that they want. Women are angry unreasonable creatures who are just wanting to make you hurt because they did NOT have their life turn out the way they planned. And when they scream it is FOR the child, I laugh. Children don't need cable, game consoles, cell phones, and other gadgets. If a woman can NOT keep a roof over her child's head, and his basic needs meet on her own, then she has ZERO business having custody. Child support is like a extra payday to these women, and when you don't give them that paycheck, they feel it necessary to call you a deadbeat.

This is not true for all women, and only those who feel it applies to them will take offense at this posting.

Nobody really cares if you sit at home and do nothing, if you have nobody to take care of other than yourself.

But, if you have kids, then you need to provide for them. They didn't ask to be born. They also do not have the skills, education, and, in most instances, the minimum age to earn income for themselves. For you, if providing for them means working at McDonald's, or working a graveyard security shift, or doing janitorial work, so be it. They're your kids. Why should they suffer because of your employment difficulties? You need to think about them first, then worry about yourself.

That's why some would call you "deadbeat."

Because you managed to pay for your internet service!!!!